Dreams of our recently dead friends furnish a type of dream which is
formed in exactly the same way as these dreams of a return to school
life. The only difference is that they often present it in a more vivid,
pronounced, and poignantly emotional shape. This is so, partly from
the very subject of such dreams, and partly because the fact of death
definitely divides our impressions of our dead friends into two groups,
which are intimately allied to each other by their subject, and yet
absolutely opposed by the fact that in the one group the friend is alive,
and in the other dead.
I proceed to present two series of dreams--one in a man, the other in a
woman--illustrating this type of dream.[180]
_Observation I._--Mr. C., age about twenty-eight, a man of scientific
training and aptitudes. Shortly after his mother's death he repeatedly
dreamed that she had come to life again. She had been buried, but it was
somehow found out that she was not really dead. Mr. C. describes the
painful intellectual struggles that went on in these dreams, the arguments
in favour of death from the impossibility of prolonged life in the grave,
and how these doubts were finally swallowed up in a sense of wonder and
joy because his mother was actually there, alive, in his dream.
These dreams became less frequent as time went on, but some years later
occurred an isolated dream which clearly shows a further stage in the
same process. Mr. C. dreamed that his father had just returned home, and
that he (the dreamer) was puzzled to make out where his mother was. After
puzzling a long time he asked his sister, but at the very moment he asked
it flashed upon him--more, he thinks, with a feeling of relief at the
solution of a painful difficulty than with grief--that his mother was dead.
_Observation II._--Mrs. F., age about thirty, highly intelligent but of
somewhat emotional temperament. A week after the death of a lifelong
friend to whom she was greatly attached, Mrs. F. dreamed for the first
time of her friend, finding that she was alive, and then in the course of
the dream discovering that she had been buried alive.
A second dream occurred on the following night. Mrs. F. imagined that she
went to see her friend, whom she found in bed, and to whom she told the
strange things that she had heard (_i.e._, that the friend was dead). Her
friend then gave Mrs. F. a few things as souvenirs. But on leaving the
room Mrs. F. was told that her friend was really dead, and had spoken to
her after death.
In a fourth dream, at a subsequent date, Mrs. F. imagined that her friend
came to her, saying that she had returned to earth for a few minutes to
give her messages and to assure her that she was happy in another world
and in the enjoyment of the fullest life.
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