It would appear that the dreams of this type are less pronounced in the
ratio of the less pronounced affectional intensity of the relationship
which unites the friends. The next dream concerned a man for whom I had
the highest esteem and regard, but had not been intimately associated
with. I dreamed that I saw this friend, who was the editor of a
psychological journal, alive and well in his room, together with two
foreign psychologists also known to me, who had apparently succeeded him
in the editorship of the journal, for I saw their names on the title-page
of a number of it which was put in my hands. It surprised me that, though
alive and well, he should have ceased to edit the journal; the theory
by which I satisfactorily accounted to myself for his appearance was
that, though he had been so near death that his life was despaired of,
he had not actually died; his death had been prematurely reported. It
flashed across my dream consciousness, indeed, that I had read obituaries
of my friend in the papers, but this reminiscence merely suggested the
reflection that some one had been guilty of a grave indiscretion.[182]
Although no attempt had been made to analyse this type of dream before
1895, the dream itself had often been noted down, as from its poignant
and affecting character it could not fail to be. An early example is
furnished by the philosopher Gassendi, who states that he dreamed he met a
friend, that he greeted him as one returned from the dead, and that then,
saying to himself in his dream that this was impossible, he concluded
that he must be dreaming.[183] Pepys, again, in his _Diary_, on the 29th
June 1667, a few months after his mother's death, dreamed that 'my mother
told me she lacked a pair of gloves, and I remembered a pair of my wife's
in my chamber, and resolved she should have them, but then recollected
[reflected] how my mother came to be here when I was in mourning for
her, and so thinking it to be a mistake in our thinking her all this
while dead, I did contrive that it should be said to any that inquired
that it was my mother-in-law, my wife's mother, that was dead, and we in
mourning for.' This dream, Pepys adds, 'did trouble me mightily.' Edmond
de Goncourt, in his _Journal_ (27th July 1870), well describes how in
the first dream of the dead brother to whom he was so tenderly attached,
the two streams of memories appeared. He dreamed he was walking with
his brother, but at the same time he knew he was in mourning for him,
and friends were coming up to offer condolences; the emotions caused by
the conflict of these two certainties--his brother's life affirmed by
his presence and his death affirmed by all the other circumstances of
the dream--was profoundly distressing. A few years earlier Renan, when
his dearly loved sister Henrietta died by his side in the Lebanon, also
had dreams of this type, which deeply affected even his cautious and
sceptical nature. She had died of Syrian fever, from which he also was
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