Things to be Remembered in Daily Life: With Personal Experiences and RecollectionsTimbs, John
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Things to be Remembered in Daily Life: With Personal Experiences and Recollections
Timbs, John
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Among the many recommendations which will always attach to a public
system of education, the value of early emulation, the force of example,
the abandonment of sulky and selfish habits, and the acquirement of
generous, manly dispositions, are not to be overlooked. To begin at the
beginning is the only royal road to learning; and this is only to be
reached by attention to elementary truths. Yet this is difficult, even
for cultivated men. “In reality,” says Dr. Temple, “elementary truths
are the hardest of all to learn, unless we pass our childhood in an
atmosphere thoroughly impregnated with them; and then we imbibe them
unconsciously, and find it difficult to perceive their difficulty.”[71]
Yet how few children have this advantage: so many false impressions are
received in childhood, that the first business of education proper is to
_unlearn_.
The superior influence of example over precept is thus eloquently
illustrated by Carlyle: “Is not love, from of old, known to be the
beginning of all things? And what is admiration of the great but love of
the truly lovable? The first product of love is imitation, that
all-important peculiar gift of man, whereby mankind is not only held
socially together in the present time, but connected in like union with
the past and future; so that the attainment of the innumerable departed
can be conveyed down to the living, and transmitted with increase to the
unborn. Now, great men, in particular spiritually great men (for all men
have a spirit to guide, though all have not kingdoms to govern and
battles to fight), are the men universally imitated and learned of, the
glass in which whole generations survey and shape themselves.”
Lord Jeffrey has remarked upon the necessity of early restraint, that
Young people who have been habitually gratified in all their desires
will not only more indulge in capricious desires, but will
infallibly take it more amiss when the feelings or happiness of
others require that they should be thwarted, than those who have
been practically trained to the habit of subduing and restraining
them; and consequently will in general sacrifice the happiness of
others to their own selfish indulgence. To what else is the
selfishness of princes and other great people to be attributed? It
is in vain to think of cultivating principles of generosity and
beneficence by mere exhortation and reasoning. Nothing but the
_practical habit_ of overcoming our own selfishness, and of
familiarly encountering privations and discomfort on account of
others, will ever enable us to do it when required. And therefore I
am firmly persuaded that indulgence infallibly produces selfishness
and hardness of heart, and that nothing but a pretty severe
discipline and control can lay the foundation of a magnanimous
character.
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Footnote 71:
_Education of the World._
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