Things to be Remembered in Daily Life: With Personal Experiences and RecollectionsTimbs, John
Philosophy
Things to be Remembered in Daily Life: With Personal Experiences and Recollections
Timbs, John
Encyclopedias and dictionaries
It is better for you to pass an evening once or twice a week in a
lady’s drawing-room, even though the conversation is slow, and you
know the girl’s song by heart, than in a club, tavern, or the pit of
a theatre. All amusements of youth to which virtuous women are not
admitted, rely on it, are deleterious to their nature. All men who
avoid female society have dull perceptions and are stupid, or have
gross tastes and revolt against what is pure. Your club-swaggerers,
who are sucking the butts of billiard-cues all night, call female
society insipid. Poetry is uninspiring to a yokel; beauty has no
charms for a blind man; music does not please a poor beast who does
not know one tune from another; but as a true epicure is hardly ever
tired of water, sancey, and brown bread and butter, I protest I can
sit for a whole night talking to a well-regulated, kindly woman
about her girl Fanny or her boy Frank, and like the evening’s
entertainment. One of the great benefits a man may derive from
woman’s society is, that he is bound to be respectful to her. The
habit is of great good to your moral men, depend upon it. Our
education makes of use the most eminently selfish men in the world.
We fight for ourselves, we push for ourselves, we yawn for
ourselves, we light our pipes and say we won’t go out, we prefer
ourselves and our ease; and the greatest that comes to a man from a
woman’s society is, that he has to think of somebody to whom he is
bound to be constantly attentive and respectful.—_Thackeray._
Every virtue enjoined by Christianity as a virtue, is recommended by
politeness as an accomplishment. Gentleness, humility, deference,
affability, and a readiness to assist and serve on all occasions, are as
necessary in the composition of a true Christian as in that of a
well-bred man. Passion, moroseness, peevishness, and supercilious
self-sufficiency, are equally repugnant to the characters of both, who
differ in this only, that the true Christian really is what the
well-bred man pretends to be, and would still be better bred if he
was.—_Soame Jenyns._
---------------------
Footnote 120:
Jeremy Taylor.
------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Spirit of the Age.
----------------------------
PROGRESS OF KNOWLEDGE.
THE zeal which Albert, Prince Consort, evinced in furthering good
works,—his sympathy with the wants of the poor, their bodily health and
comfort, and their intellectual and moral culture,—will long endear his
memory to the grateful people of the country of his adoption.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account