Scant justice would be done to the work of missions, if no account
were taken of the work done by the wives of the missionaries. Their
work is seldom reported, and is not always reportable, but it has to
be done all the same. In one sense their work is never done, for they
are always at it, helping in a score of unnumbered and unsentimental
ways. They visit the schools, conduct the sewing-classes, look after
the Bible women, and teach the female Bible-classes. They look after
the women of the churches--old folk, young folk, well folk, feeble
folk, and all sorts of folk who need bits of help, and odds and ends of
guidance, good advice, and wise suggestion. Besides that which cometh
upon them daily--the care of their households, their small families,
and the attention native servants all require.
They have to make the most of the preparations for their husbands when
they go off on itinerating tours--see to his cooking-utensils, stores,
stretcher, bedding, &c. Some of them would starve by the way if their
good wives did not look after them. If there are any social amenities
to be observed in order to good standing in the community, as there are
sometimes, the wives have to see to them, or they will not be done.
They have to see that their husbands are not barbarized while about
their work. Some of the husbands would go round with sleeves out at the
elbows, or in their cook’s white drill coat, which the washerman had by
mistake put along with the missionary’s, or in shoes careened over on
one side and tied with twine, if their wives did not look after them.
They would get to taking their breakfast in the pantry, or on their
desks, or even go off into the country without breakfast, if left to
themselves.
Every time they return from an itinerating tour their wives have to
put them through their facings, make them presentable to society, and
not a discredit to those that sent them out. Nor is this all that
missionaries’ wives have to do and see after. They have to be the
general supplementers in most mission fields of all manner of minor
unfinished items in the round of missionary life.
In some fields the wives have to mix medicines, spread plasters, give
out doses of ‘pain-killer,’ quinine, castor oil, warn the children
against green fruit and colic, put on patches, sew on buttons, deal out
bits of thread and needles, doctor the children, ask the children how
their mothers are, and the mothers how the children are, keep count
of the baptizing gowns, look after the preparations for the Communion
Service, keep the desk supplied with pens, ink, paper and postage
stamps. And so on, and so on, with twenty other things of no account in
making up a ‘report,’ but all of which are most valuable items of solid
missionary usefulness, and go a very long way in making the work of
their husbands a success or a failure.
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