Since her husband's death her devotion to her son's education has
been fatal to his best interests. Her unfailing solicitude for his
health, her constant terror of accident and illness, have reduced
volitional effort in him to a minimum, and under this régime of
tyrannical affection he has been as delicately nurtured as a young
girl. Even at the age of thirty he must be indoors at night by ten
o'clock, and a few minutes' delay will bring his mother to a state
bordering on frenzy, and end in the dispatch of some one to seek
him; whence all sorts of domestic discussions, and quarrels, and
"scenes," with tears and mutual recrimination.
Little wonder then, with such an example, that, in spite of his own
robust health, S. evinces the same senseless fear of chills and
colds and currents of air, and tries the doors and windows so
incessantly and so violently withal that they have to be repaired
almost every month. In his own room they have been doubled and
padded. His anxiety to avoid catching cold actually leads him to
weigh the samples of cloth submitted to him, to ensure that his
next suit of clothes will be of the same weight as his last.
With all this excess of tenderness, S.'s mother does not always err
on the side of leniency. On the contrary, punishment is apportioned
for the most trivial fault, although it is only necessary on S.'s
part to simulate illness for his mother at once to yield to his
most ridiculous caprice.
S. suffers from a rotatory tic of the head, which he attributes to
a blow on the neck once administered by his mother by way of
chastisement; but it may very well be questioned whether the
torticollis was not rather a clever imposition intended to soften
the mother's heart and bring about her repudiation of corporal
punishment.
The case of J. is no less instructive, since he came of a family of
veritable syphilophobes whose extraordinary frailties and
sentimentalities contributed not a little to the progress of his
disease.
A glimpse into the domestic life of L. is equally illuminating.
L. is an only child, who from infancy has usurped her parents'
attention. Their uneasiness lest her "nervous movements" should
prove detrimental to her general health is the explanation of her
highly irregular attendance at school and of repeated holidaying.
She may not go out alone, as her "incantations" are liable to
arrest her in the middle of the street; at the same time lack of
control over her legs may endanger her safety, and erratic arm
gestures render the aid of a stick or umbrella useless.
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