Tokology : $b A book for every womanStockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
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Tokology : $b A book for every woman
Stockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
Women -- Health and hygiene
William Acton, M. R. C. S., an English physician, eminent in his
profession, says: “True continence is complete control over the
passions, exercised by one who has felt their power, and who, were it
not for his steady will, not only could but would indulge them. * * *
Granted, that continence is a _trial_, a sore trial, a bitter trial,
if you will, what, I would ask, is the use or object of a trial but to
try, to test, to elicit, strengthen and brace whatever of sterling,
whatever of valuable, there is in the thing tried? To yield at once, is
this the right way to meet a trial? To lay down one’s arms at the first
threatening of conflict, is this a _creditable_ escape from trial,
to say no more? Nay, is it _safe_, when the trial is imposed by the
highest possible authority? Our object ought to be to preserve a pure
and healthy mind in a pure and healthy body. Judiciously directed,
training and exercise of _both_ toward this definite object would, I am
sure, in most cases, reduce the difficulty of living a chaste life to
the minimum, and indeed render the conflict rather a proud and thankful
sense of self-command than an arduous struggle. * * * The man who can
command even his thoughts will have an easier task in keeping himself
continent than he who cannot. He has great power who, when physical
temptations assail him can determinedly apply his mind to other
subjects, and employ the whole force of his will in turning away from
the danger.”
Carpenter, in a late edition of his work, says to those who urge the
wants of nature as an excuse for the illicit gratification of the
sexual passion: “Try the effects of close mental application to some
ennobling pursuit, in combination with vigorous bodily exercise, before
you assert that the appetite is unrestrainable, and act upon that
assertion.”
To parents desiring the best interests of offspring, these quotations
from men of known scientific and professional reputation are worthy of
careful thought. Lives based upon these truths will make motherhood
desired, and offspring a blessing.
To secure the best possible conditions for maternity, a lady should
never lose sight of the value of congenial, absorbing occupation.
There should be no leisure to foster morbid symptoms. Having neither
financial need nor desire for following a special vocation, the
systematic pursuit of some study, as geology, natural history or
botany, will make conditions for satisfactory pre-natal culture.
Who knows but by throwing her whole soul into the search, and thus
being carried out of herself by these ennobling pursuits, she may
become the mother of a Humboldt, an Agassiz or an Audubon.
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