Tokology : $b A book for every womanStockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
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Tokology : $b A book for every woman
Stockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
Women -- Health and hygiene
That there is implanted in his being demands that cannot be restrained
without injury to health.
That restraint is followed by absorption of the elements of generation,
producing effects not unlike the absorption of a virulent foreign
element.
That woman naturally has not so much passion as man, has not so much
secretion, also has an outlet in menstruation, consequently has not the
same demands nor the same injury if not gratified.
Are these claims based upon truth? What are the facts from which to
infer what men and women _naturally_ are?
When woman _only_ is taught that virtue is the brightest jewel in her
crown, when the popular verdict is that womanliness and modesty are
synonyms for repression, when she lives in fear of maternity, and
believes restraint on her part prevents vitality of life germs, when,
too, erroneous habits pervert every function, how can we tell what is
natural for her?
Then, on the other hand, when man is taught that virtue is _not_
synonymous with manliness, when the passions are stimulated by
unnatural habits of living, by impure conversation, thoughts, books and
practices, can we say this strength of passion is purely natural and
healthy?
A. E. Newton says: “They who have never carefully noted the effects
of alcoholic stimulants, of coffee, oysters, eggs, spices and animal
food, as well as they who find pleasure in filthy conversations, can
not surely, with any justness, charge _nature_ with the exuberance of
their amatory desires.”
We teach the girl _repression_, the boy _expression_, not simply by
word and book, but the lessons are graven into their very being by all
the traditions, prejudices and customs of society.
What are some of the results of this theory?
Notably, in the first place, we have what is called the “social evil.”
Women, licensed by men, make a business of prostitution, selling
their bodies that this demand--this _necessity_--of the male shall be
supplied. In visiting these women, men simply yield to this supposed
necessity of their nature; consequently commit no violation of law.
Women not having the same demands, by entering this life, or even
permitting the act once, violate the laws of their being; according to
the social codes, perpetrate the greatest crime in the calendar! They
become outcasts. If they fill their lives with noble and philanthropic
deeds, this one sin is so foul and rank, is such an offense, they have
little hope of remission, even from a just and all-loving God.
Can the fact that men are upheld, their crime even condoned, while
women, as partners in this terrible evil, are not only ostracised, but
irretrievably lost, be explained in any other way?
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