Tokology : $b A book for every womanStockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
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Tokology : $b A book for every woman
Stockham, Alice B. (Alice Bunker)
Women -- Health and hygiene
“The Better Way,” a pamphlet, by A. E. Newton, teaches that only
through continent lives can we hope for progress.
“_Plain Facts_,” by Dr. Kellogg, has had an immense sale. He, too,
teaches the same thought.
Note, all these books are written by _men_--not by women, with some
fancied wrongs to redress; but by men strongly in sympathy with the
needs of the race. They claim that a better and higher generation can
only be attained through continent lives. This is a subject demanding
the serious consideration, at least, of scientists, philosophers and
philanthropists.
If the law of continence is not the law to govern one’s entire life,
it is natural and reasonable that the mother should be exempt from the
sexual relation during gestation. The husband should ever be ready to
comfort and cheer with his sympathy. He should bear in mind that at
this time his wife and child need the conservation of all forces, and
consequently he should “observe all laws that will _let reason reign
and passion serve_.”
The observance of the law of continence will do much to palliate the
many nervous symptoms of pregnancy. I have known women so sensitive
during gestation that even a touch or a kiss from the husband caused
nausea and other distressing symptoms.
“The sexual relation at this time exhausts the mother and impairs the
vitality of the child, inducing in its constitution precocious sexual
development. The mind should be free from the subject, and every
circumstance that has a tendency to promote desire should be studiously
avoided. For this reason separate beds and even sleeping rooms for
husband and wife are to be recommended.”
It is worth investigating, whether the cause of suffering in pregnancy
and much of the pain at parturition may not also be removed by the
practice of continence during gestation.
Cannot those in charge of hospitals and charitable institutions
make a study of the subject? A collection of statistics would help
to establish or refute this theory. The influence of continence on
offspring invites the serious thought of all who desire the progress
of purity. Thoughtful parents will question whether by living during
the mother’s gestation on the low plane of physical love, they are not
implanting in their child the seeds of sensuality. Keeping their lives
in the higher spiritual love they may have offspring to whom a life of
purity and self-control will be natural.
“In brief, the law seems to be that, such is the intimate connection
between the mother and the embryo, the exercise of any faculty of her
mind or soul, or of any organ of her brain or body, stimulates and
develops in proportionate degree the corresponding faculty or organ in
the incipient child.”
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