Trials and Confessions of a HousekeeperArthur, T. S. (Timothy Shay)
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Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper
Arthur, T. S. (Timothy Shay)
Home economics -- Fiction; Housekeeping -- Fiction; Housewives -- Fiction
"My dear child!" Mrs. Milnor said to her, with affectionate
earnestness, in reply to this allusion--"depend upon it, four-fifths
of the bad domestics are made so by injudicious treatment. They are,
for the most part, ignorant of almost every thing, and too often,
particularly, of their duties in a family. Instead of being borne
with, instructed, and treated with consideration, they are scolded,
driven and found fault with. Kind words they too rarely receive; and
no one can well and cheerfully perform all that is required of her
as a domestic, if she is never spoken to kindly, never
considered--never borne with, patiently. It is in our power to make
a great deal of work for our servants that is altogether
unnecessary--and of course, in our power to save them many steps,
and many moments of time. If we are in the chambers, and wish a
servant for any thing, and she is down in the kitchen engaged, it is
always well to think twice before we ring for her once. It may be,
that we do not really want the attendance of any one, or can just as
well wait until some errand has brought her up stairs. Then, there
are various little things in which we can help ourselves and ought
to do it. It is unpardonable, I think, for a lady to ring for a
servant to come up one or two pairs of stairs merely to hand her a
drink, when all she has to do is to cross the room, and get it for
herself. Or for a young lady to require a servant to attend to all
her little wants, when she can and ought to help herself, even if it
takes her from the third story to the kitchen, half a dozen times a
day. Above all, domestics should never be scolded. If reproof is
necessary, let it be administered in a calm mild voice, and the
reasons shown why the act complained of is wrong. This is the only
way in which any good is done."
"I wish my mother could only learn that," said Helen, mentally, as
Mrs. Milnor ceased speaking. When she returned home, it was with a
deeply formed resolution never again to speak reprovingly to any of
her mother's domestics--never to order them to do any thing for
her,--and never to require them to wait upon her when she could just
as well help herself. In this she proved firm. The consequence was,
an entire change in Hannah's deportment towards her, and a cheerful
performance by her of every thing she asked her to do. This could
not but be observed by her mother, and it induced her to modify, to
some extent, her way of treating her servants. The result was
salutary, and now she has far less trouble with them than she ever
had in her life. All, she finds, are not so worthless as she had
deemed them.
CHAPTER XXXI.
A MOTHER'S DUTY.
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