Trials and Confessions of a HousekeeperArthur, T. S. (Timothy Shay)
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Trials and Confessions of a Housekeeper
Arthur, T. S. (Timothy Shay)
Home economics -- Fiction; Housekeeping -- Fiction; Housewives -- Fiction
It would be, indeed, to suppose mothers more than human to think
that their instructions should be perfect. The best of mothers are
liable to err, and the love a mother has for her child may tempt her
frequently to pass over faults which she knows ought to be
corrected. But making due allowance for human incompetency and human
weakness, still will a mother be bound to the utmost of her power to
be the instructress of her child, equally by the lesson she
inculcates and the pattern she exhibits.
There is, indeed, too much neglect shown in the instruction of
children. Mothers seem to think, that if amiable qualities are shown
in the exterior, no instruction is necessary for the heart. But this
is a most futile attempt to make children virtuous; it is like
attempting to purify water half-way down the stream, and leaving it
still foul at the source. The heart should be the first thing
instructed; a motive and a reason should be given for every
requirement--a motive and a reason should be given for every
abstinence called for--and when the heart is made to love virtue,
the actions will be those of virtue; for it is the heart which is
the great mover of all actions--and the moment a child can
distinguish between a smile and a frown, from that moment should
instruction commence--an instruction suited indeed to infantine
capacities, but which should be enlarged as the child's capacities
expand. It is very bad policy to suffer the first years of a child's
life to pass without instruction; for if good be not written on the
mind, there is sure to be evil. It is a mother's duty to watch the
expanding intellect of her child, and to suit her instructions
accordingly: it is equally so to learn its disposition--to study its
wishes, its hopes and its fears, and to direct, control, and point
them to noble aims and ends.
Oh! not alone is it needful that a mother be solicitous for the
health and happiness of her child on earth: a far higher and more
important thought should engage her attention--concern for her child
as an immortal and an accountable being.
To all who bear the endearing name of mother, thus would we speak:
That child with whom you are so fondly playing--whose happy and
smiling countenance might serve for the representation of a
cherub, and whose merry laugh rings joyously and free--yes! that
blooming child, notwithstanding all these pleasing and attractive
smiles, has a heart prone to evil. To you is it committed to be the
teacher of that child; and on that teaching will mainly if not
entirely depend its future happiness or misery; not of a few brief
years--not of a life-time, but of eternity; for though a dying
creature, it is still immortal, and the happiness or misery of that
immortality depends upon your instruction.
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