What a Young Wife Ought to KnowDrake, Emma F. Angell (Emma Frances Angell)
Science
What a Young Wife Ought to Know
Drake, Emma F. Angell (Emma Frances Angell)
Infants -- Care; Marriage; Women -- Health and hygiene
Memory’s Dissimilar Pictures of Birth-Chamber Scenes.—Newborn
Souls Welcomed to Mother’s Arms and Love.—The Rebellious
Mother with Empty Heart and Unwilling Arms.—The Older
Children Reflect the Spirit of the Mother toward the
Newcomer.—Illustrations of Conduct of Intelligent Children
toward Mother at Birth Period.—How to Calculate Date of
Confinement.—Birth Chamber no Terror for Those who Live
Hygienically.—Anæsthetics.—Their Use Explained.—Allaying
Anxiety.—Earliest Premonitions.—Preparation.—The Three Stages
of Labor.—Tying the Cord.—The Rest and Joy that Complete and
Crown Labor.
Some of the darkest, and some of the brightest pictures of life, hung
on the walls of memory, have been painted for me in the birth chamber.
Bright when the little newborn soul is welcomed to a mother’s arms and
love; love that is months long and deep. Dark when there has been a
bitter rebellion that she must be a mother at all, and the little one
comes into an empty heart and unwilling arms.
Another class of pictures comes to me; of the children trained by these
mothers. The one class, children who are angry and rebellious that more
little ones must come into the home, prepared to greet them with a
hateful welcome, and looking upon their parents with a jealous distrust,
thinking they must be in some way responsible for this unhappy state of
affairs. Is it not true that such children are but the echo of their
parents’ hearts? The other class of children, looking with love for the
advent of the new brother or sister, cherishing it more and more every
day, and giving their parents loving confidence.
Two of the bright pictures come to my mind. A little daughter who had
been wisely taught where babies are first cradled, became in her seventh
year a little woman in comfort and care-taking consideration of the
dear mamma. “What can I do to help you, mamma, dear? and if you should
be taken sick all alone here, you would call me and let me help you,
wouldn’t you, mamma?” were questions often heard, and they sank freighted
with comforting love, into the mother’s heart. This same daughter is now
budding into womanhood and prepared to meet all its responsibilities and
temptations, and yet withal, modest and winning in her girlish, wise
womanliness.
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