Women -- Economic conditions; Women -- Employment; Women -- Social and moral questions
If the ideal of the modern woman becomes increasingly one inconsistent
with the passive existence of woman on the remuneration which her sexual
attributes may win from man, and marriage becomes for her increasingly
a fellowship of comrades, rather than the relationship of the owner and
the bought, the keeper and the kept; the ideal of the typically modern
man departs quite as strongly from that of his forefathers in the
direction of finding in woman active companionship and co-operation
rather than passive submission. If the New Woman’s conception of
parenthood differs from the old in the greater sense of the gravity and
obligation resting on those who are responsible for the production of
the individual life, making her attitude toward the production of her
race widely unlike the reckless, unreasoning, maternal reproduction of
the woman of the past, the most typical male tends to feel in at least
the same degree the moral and social obligation entailed by awakening
lifehood: if the ideal which the New Woman shapes for herself of a male
companion excludes the crudely animal hard-drinking, hard-swearing,
licentious, even if materially wealthy gallant of the past; the most
typically modern male’s ideal for himself excludes at least equally
this type. The brothel, the race-course, the gaming-table, and habits
of physical excess among men are still with us; but the most superficial
study of our societies will show that these have fallen into a new place
in the scale of social institutions and manners. The politician, the
clergyman, or the lawyer does not improve his social or public standing
by violent addictions in these directions; to drink his companions
under the table, to be known to have the largest number of illicit sex
relations, to be recognised as an habitual visitant of the gambling
saloon, does not, even in the case of a crowned head, much enhance his
reputation, and with the ordinary man may ultimately prove a bar to all
success. If the New Woman’s conception of love between the sexes is one
more largely psychic and intellectual than crudely and purely physical,
and wholly of an affection between companions; the New Man’s conception
as expressed in the most typical literature and art, produced by
typically modern males, gives voice with a force no woman has surpassed
to the same new ideal. If to the typical modern woman the lifelong
companionship of a Tom Jones or Squire Western would be more intolerable
than death or the most complete celibacy, not less would the most
typical of modern men shrink from the prospect of a lifelong fetterment
to the companionship of an always fainting, weeping, and terrified
Emilia or a Sophia of a bygone epoch.
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