Women -- Economic conditions; Women -- Employment; Women -- Social and moral questions
It is also inevitable that this suffering and conflict must make itself
felt in its acutest form in the person of the most advanced individual
of our societies. It is the swimmer who first leaps into the frozen
stream who is cut sharpest by the ice; those who follow him find it
broken, and the last find it gone. It is the man or woman who first
treads down the path which the bulk of humanity will ultimately follow,
who must find themselves at last in solitudes where the silence is
deadly. The fact that any course of human action leading to adjustment,
leads also to immediate suffering, by dividing the individual from
the bulk of his fellows; is no argument against it; that solitude and
suffering is the crown of thorns which marks the kingship of earth’s
Messiahs: it is the mark of the leader.
Thus, social disco-ordination, and subjective conflict and suffering,
pervade the life of our age, making themselves felt in every division
of human life, religious, political, and domestic; and, if they are more
noticeable, and make themselves more keenly felt in the region of sex
than in any other, even the religious, it is because when we enter the
region of sex we touch, as it were, the spinal cord of human existence,
its great nerve centre, where sensation is most acute, and pain and
pleasure most keenly felt. It is not sex disco-ordination that is at the
root of our social unrest; it is the universal disco-ordination which
affects even the world of sex phenomena.
Also it is necessary to note that the line which divides the progressive
sections of our communities, seeking to co-ordinate themselves to the
new conditions of life, from the retrogressive, is not a line running
coincidentally with the line of sex. A George Sand and a Henrik Ibsen
belong more essentially to the same class in the order of modern
development, than either belongs to any class composed entirely of their
own sex. If we divide humanity into classes according to type, in each
division will be found the male with his complementary female. Side by
side with the old harlot at the street corner anxious to sell herself,
stands the old aboriginal male, whether covered or not with a veneer of
civilisation, eager and desiring to buy. Side by side with the parasitic
woman, seeking only increased pleasure and luxury from her relations
with man, stands the male seeking only pleasure and self-indulgence from
his relations with her. Side by side with the New Woman, anxious for
labour and seeking from man only such love and fellowship as she gives,
stands the New Man, anxious to possess her only on the terms she offers.
If the social movement, through which the most advanced women of our
day are attempting to bring themselves into co-ordination with the new
conditions of life, removes them immeasurably from certain types of the
primitive male; the same movement equally removes the new male from the
old female. The sexual tragedy of modern life lies, not in the fact that
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