Prisons -- United States; Women prisoners -- United States
"Ha! ha! ha!" resounded through the prison in continuous echoes.
"It has done me good to laugh. I don't feel half so mad with her as I
did."
"O'Brien, I came very near sending you to the shop to-day, when you
scolded Allen so hard. Be careful or you will change your mistress
before you know it. You keep me in constant anxiety lest the Deputy, or
some of the other Matrons should come in and hear you. In that case it
would be beyond my power to help you."
"If you do send me to the shop you will have me home again in less than
twenty-four hours, one of your bread-and-water boarders."
She understood how to meet that threat.
"I don't know but Hardhack will get me into solitary as it is. When she
came through the kitchen this noon, she saw me eating a piece of fish
with my bread,--we'd been stripping it off for the hash, and I took a
piece. She asked me who gave me liberty to eat fish. I told her, nobody.
She asked me how I dared to eat that fish without permission. I should
have made her a saucy answer only I knew it would make you feel bad, so
I didn't say anything."
"I am glad you had so much thought, and exercised so much self-control."
"I wasn't afraid of Hardhack."
"I am glad you had so much regard for me. It gives me a great deal of
pleasure to know of your good behavior. Don't you feel better, yourself,
for doing what is right?"
"Yes, ma'am; I do! and when you tell me I do right, it makes me feel
quite like a woman again; as though I was somebody."
Self-respect goes a long way towards creating good behavior, and
commendation given, where it is deserved, produces that effect. I
watched for a chance to praise them when they did well, and bestowed the
approval wherever I could find the opportunity.
There was no lack of discrimination on their part. They were aware when
they committed intentional wrong, and, as a rule, acknowledged it when
rebuked in a kind spirit. With the same understanding they appreciated
the praise when it was deserved. Gratitude was aroused when it was
given, and the satisfaction they enjoyed was an incentive to strive to
obtain more.
I had constant proof that the exercise of kindness was far more
effectual in getting my work done than that of stern authority.
That afternoon I had wished O'Brien to take more pains with her
scrubbing, and had said to her,--
"Your floor looks red and nice,"--the kitchen floor was of brick,--"but
do you notice that soiled strip in that corner, under the table? A dingy
border spoils all the effect of your labor."
"Yes, ma'am. I saw it when I was scrubbing; but I was so tired, and my
shoulder ached so bad that I didn't touch it."
"I am sorry your shoulder aches, and I know you are tired; but I like to
see the place look nice."
"I know you do; I'll go right now and take it away."
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