a good wife who was grateful for being trampled upon, even when her
innocent heart was breaking. It was a fine object-lesson for the proper
education of girls, and this marvel of self-sacrifice was held up from
one end of Europe to the other as a model of womanhood. Poets painted
her over and over again, with race variations; moralists praised her;
and men quoted her to their wives. Some instinct of justice prompted
Boccaccio to reward her in the end for all this useless misery, which
was simply a test of her servile quality, by putting her again, after
a series of years, into the good graces of her inhuman husband; but
it is needless to say that such rewards of virtue, if they could be
considered rewards, are not in the way of a world in which these
lessons are read.
All this shows how far the heroines of the early poets, whether
good or bad, differed from the strong, able, and accomplished women
who were recognized as the glories of the Renaissance. It suggests
also the lurid or colorless background against which the latter were
outlined. The cynical bachelor in Molière’s comedy summed up the whole
duty of woman according to the gospel of the middle ages--and, it
might be added, of many other ages--when he said that his wife must
know only how to “pray to God, love, sew, and spin.” The last three
qualifications were necessary for his own comfort, and he had the
penetration to divine that she might have ample need of the first on
her own account. Then it gave him an agreeable sense of security to
have a certain proprietorship in some one mildly affiliated with the
next world. “In thy orisons be all my sins remembered,” says Hamlet
to the fair Ophelia. A man might be the worst of sinners himself,
but he liked a seasoning of piety in his wife, provided it was not
too aggressive and left him free to be wicked if he chose. It was
like having an altar in the home, and gave it a desirable flavor of
saintliness.
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