With all these tragic possibilities, it was out of the question to
secure a divorce for any incompatibility of temper, small or great,
unless his Holiness saw that it would serve some interest or caprice of
his own, and incidentally add to the glory of the church. But pent-up
emotions are apt to be troublesome, and it is hardly strange that these
women, with an abyss on one side and a vacuum on the other, sought a
way of reconciling matters that infringed visibly on no man’s rights.
They adopted the fashion of supplementing a terrestrial love that was
not very comfortable with a celestial one which, if rather attenuated,
seemed quite innocent and harmless, and gave them something pleasant
to think about. These airy and Platonic sentiments had a much more
substantial character among men and women who lived at a high mental
altitude. It is to live confessedly on a very low plane to deny that
there is a tie of the intellect which tends only to fine issues, and
is a source of light and inspiration. But this implies first of all
an intellect of distinct range, and a clear moral sense, that are not
always forthcoming. The friendship between Michelangelo and Vittoria
Colonna was a sympathy between two exalted souls who dwelt habitually
on the heights, far above the mists of sense and the banalities of
lesser minds. “Friendship is not a sentiment without fire,” wrote the
cold and skeptical Buffon to Mme. Necker, nearly four centuries later;
“it is rather a warming of the soul, an emotion, a movement sweeter
than that of any other passion, and also quite as strong.” But this
passion of friendship can exist in its perfection only between those in
whom sensibility lights the intellect without submerging it; on a lower
plane it has its dangers.
In the days of the précieuses, the apostles of Platonic love cut the
cord that bound them to reality, and floated away on a cloud of pure
emotionalism. Merged in affectations, it finally evaporated in phrases
on the lips of sighing youths and romantic maidens. In the Anglo-Saxon
world it never had a very strong foothold. The race is not sufficiently
imaginative.
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