But other times, other conditions and other methods. It was a long step
from these fine ladies in rouge and ruffles to the earnest American
women of high aims and simpler lives who, not far from thirty years
ago, began seriously to group themselves in clubs for social fellowship
and mental culture. The difference is equally marked, now that these
gatherings are numbered by thousands. It is more vital than a variation
in manners, as it lies in the character of the two races.
The club had no prestige of a class behind it, and concerned itself
little with traditions. It was a far more radical departure from the
old order than the salon, which, though it established a new social
basis, did it through delicate compromises that left the aristocratic
spirit intact. It was only in its later days that the iconoclasts
invaded it, to some extent, and made it a sort of hotbed for the
propagation of democratic theories which seemed quite harmless until,
one day, a spark set them ablaze, and the generation that had played
with them was swept to destruction. The club was democratic from the
foundation. It did not revolve round men of letters, or men of any
class. There was no man, or influence of man, behind it--no man in the
vista. It does not aim to bring into relief the talents of men, but
the talents of women who had come, perhaps, to wish a little glory on
their own account. There was no longer an outlet for their activities
in the salon, which belonged neither to the genius of the age nor the
genius of the race. The Anglo-Saxon man is not preëminently a social
being, and though he has not been entirely neglected in the matter of
vanity or personal susceptibility, he has rather less of either than
his Gallic compeers. Nor is he so amenable, either by temperament or
training, to the delicate arts that make social life agreeable. Half a
century or so ago, the American, in whose chivalrous regard for women
we take so much pride, was in the habit of saying many fine things
about them in what he was pleased to call the sphere God had assigned
them; indeed, he went so far as to offer a great deal of theoretical
incense to them as household divinities, with special and very human
limitations as to privileges. But he frowned distinctly upon any
intellectual tastes or aspirations. His attitude was tersely and
modestly expressed in Tennyson’s couplet:
She knows but matters of the house,
And he, he knows a thousand things.
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