A word as to another phase of the club. We have seen that the salons
broke through the exclusive lines of rank, and created a society
based largely upon standards of the intellect, with a meeting-point
of good manners. The woman’s club has done a similar work toward
preventing the crystallization of American society on the basis of
wealth. Its standards are professedly of the mind, though they are
flexible enough to include a wide range of ability, aspiration,
and small distinctions of various sorts. It would be too much to
say that these elements are fused into anything like a homogeneous
society; but they have a recognized point of contact that suffices for
literary or charitable aims, though not altogether for social ones,
which demand the larger contact of personal sympathies, and a certain
community of language that comes within the province of manners. The
salons, however, were wise enough to establish and maintain the social
equilibrium between men and women, while the clubs seem to be rapidly
destroying it. Outside of a limited dinner-giving, amusement-loving
circle, it is undeniable that our social life is centering largely
in clubs composed exclusively of women, whose tastes are diverging
more and more from those of men, and in the functions growing out of
them. To these we may add a few receptions with a sprinkling of men,
and an endless procession of teas and luncheons with no men at all.
Private entertaining of a general character, with its varying flavor of
individuality, seems likely, with many other pleasant things, to become
a memory. If these clubs grew out of a state of affairs in which women
were virtually excluded from the intellectual life of men, we are fast
drifting toward the reverse condition, in which men will have no part
in the intellectual and very little in the social life of women.
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