The woman who brought up the Gracchi, and was so proud to show these
“jewels” to her finery-loving friends, was no pedant, but in her last
desolate years, when she was left alone with all her tragical memories,
her hospitable home at Misenum was a center for learned Greeks and
men of intellectual distinction. She was a woman of great force of
character, and the composure with which she bore her misfortune, and
talked of the deeds and sufferings of her sons, was sometimes thought
to show a lack of sensibility. Plutarch, with his usual insight and
cordial appreciation of women, said it indicated rather a lack of
understanding on the part of the critics that they did not know the
value of “a noble mind and liberal education” in supporting their
possessor under sorrow and calamity. This heroic mother of heroic
sons, who “refused Ptolemy and a crown,” was the first Roman matron of
distinguished intellectual attainments of whom we have any definite
knowledge, and the finest feminine representative of her age. Within
the next century there were many others more or less prominent in
social life.
With the advance in education many of the obstacles to marriage were
removed, and the dangers that had lurked in the ignorance of Athenian
women were averted. But the problem never ceased to be a troublesome
one. With the increase of wealth men grew more self-indulgent, and less
inclined to incur obligations of any sort. The despair of Augustus had
its humorous side. He exhausted his wit in devising means to induce men
to marry. In vain he gave honor and freedom to the married, exacted
fresh penalties from bachelors, who were forbidden to receive bequests,
and made laws against immorality. Fathers had precedence everywhere--in
affairs, at the theater, in public offices. “For less rewards than
these thousands would lose their lives,” he said. “Can they not tempt a
Roman citizen to marry a wife?” Some who wished the privileges without
the troubles compromised the matter by entering into formal contracts
with children four or five years of age. Others took a wife for a year
to comply with the law, and then dismissed her.
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