The praise of his daughter Tullia is always on his lips. She was
versed in polite letters, “the best and most learned of women,” and
he valued her companionship beyond anything in life. It seems that she
was unfortunate in husbands, and they gave him a good deal of trouble;
but when she died the light went out of his world. His letters are full
of tears, and he plans the most magnificent of monuments. He would
deify her, and draw from all writers, Greek and Latin, to transmit to
posterity her perfections and his own boundless love. But precious
time was lost in dreams of the impossible, and swift fate overtook
him before any of them crystallized. Instead of the splendid temple
that was to last forever, only a few crumbling stones of his villa on
the lonely heights of Tusculum are left to-day to recall the young,
beautiful, and gifted woman in whose “sweet conversation” the great
statesman could “drop all his cares and troubles.” Here she looked for
the last time across the Campagna upon the shining array of marbles,
columns, and palaces that were the pride of Rome in its glory, and
went away from it all, leaving behind her a fast vanishing name, the
fragrance of a fresh young life, and a desolate heart.
But if these charming pictures reveal a sympathetic side of the
intimate life of the new age, they give us also the shadows that were
creeping over it. The great man, who said so many fine things and did
so many weak ones, has always a tender message for the little Attica,
the daughter of his friend, but he fears the fortune-hunters, and
objects to a husband proposed for her, because he has paid court to a
rich woman who is old and has been several times married. For his own
wife, Terentia, he has less consideration. She is not facile enough,
and finds too much fault with his way of doing things. Perhaps she
presses her influence too far, and fails to pay proper deference to
his authority. To be sure, he calls her “my light, my darling,” says
she is in his thoughts night and day, praises her ability, and trusts
her judgment until his affairs begin to go wrong. All this, however,
does not prevent his sending her away after thirty years of devotion,
and marrying his lovely young ward, who is rich enough to pay his
debts. The latter is divorced in turn because she does not sufficiently
mourn the loss of his idolized daughter, and his closing years are
burdened with the care of restoring her dowry, which draws from him
many a bitter complaint. There is a strange note of irony in the tone
of the much-married, much-sinning, and perfidious Antony, who publicly
censures the “Father of his Country” for repudiating a wife with whom
he has grown old. But the high-spirited Terentia solaced herself with
his friend Sallust, and married one or two others after his death.
Evidently no hearts were broken, as she lived some years beyond a
century.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account