Women -- Employment -- United States; Women -- Social and moral questions
The history of our own institution, as the managers well know, shows a
constant pressure for the admission of children whose parents are able
to support them, but are naturally disposed to do this at the lowest
possible cost, and that we have also been furnishing easy facilities
for those who desire, for selfish reasons, to rid themselves of the
presence and care of their little ones. The charitable feature of the
institution, or the fact that a part of the expense is borne by our
contributors, is disguised by the fact that we are accustomed to
charge $1.25 to $1.50 a week for each child, so that the institution
is regarded by such parents simply _as a cheap boarding-house for
children_. We believe that many, who could themselves bear the entire
cost with no serious hardship, are tempted to magnify their own
disability by the fatal facilities afforded by a well-meant charity.
Some of this class are doubtless in need of help, but it should not
come in this delusive form. They may want friendly counsel and wise
direction in finding suitable homes; and they may sometimes be
assisted by kindly oversight of these homes and of their children. It
is in our power to secure for them these advantages, with added
pecuniary assistance where needed, by utilizing the methods of the
Children’s Aid Society, which is also a Bureau of Information.
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III. The most important consideration relates to the children. No mere
saving of money would justify a change which threatened injury to the
least of these little ones. But a majority of the managers are
convinced, by observation and experience, that life in the average
institution is not so good for children as life in the average
household. None can realize that so fully as those who are best
acquainted with the inner workings and vicissitudes of child-caring
institutions. We have sought to guard our children from the worst
effects by providing a kindergarten for the younger ones, and by
sending the elder to the public schools; and they have enjoyed the
care and kindness of an exceptionally competent and faithful matron;
but the total result has compelled us to the same conclusion with many
tried workers in charity,—viz.: that the children can best be fitted
for the life they must live in the world by being placed in good
families.
The testimony of two gentlemen on our Board of Council, both
experienced as heads of great industrial enterprises, is that
institution boys are generally the least desirable apprentices. They
have been dulled in faculty by not having been daily exercised in the
use of themselves in small ways ... have had all particulars of life
arranged for them, and, as a consequence, they wait for some one else
to arrange every piece of work, and are never ready for emergencies or
able to “take hold.”
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