Mendelssohn himself was married. After his father's death he had wedded
Cecile Jeanrenaud, daughter of a French pastor, and with her he passed a
life of happiness. Fanny speaks in admiration of her beautiful eyes and
expression, and praises her constant gentleness, which so often soothed
her brother's nervous and irritable moods. But not even her kindness
could make Mendelssohn forget the death of his sister, who had been a
second self to him. When he first heard of it, he uttered a shriek, and
fell senseless to the ground. His own death came directly from this
fall, for it caused the breaking of a blood-vessel in his head,
according to his physician. A holiday in Switzerland did some good, but
the sight of Fanny's rooms on his return more than neutralized this
effect. He grew weaker and weaker, until he met his death, less than six
months after that of his sister. The bereaved wife, who had given such
bright domestic charm to the home circle, lingered on for six years, but
drooped in her loneliness until at last consumption carried her off.
In direct contrast to the clean and sunny happiness of Mendelssohn is
the passionate and morbid aestheticism of Chopin. Like Beethoven, the
Polish pianist never married, but, unlike Beethoven, he was not
actuated by the highest of ideals. The first object of his devotion was
the young soprano, Constantia Gladkowska, who was just ready to graduate
from the Warsaw Conservatory when he was attracted by her. He became her
champion in criticism, and his letters are full of emotional outpourings
about her. He gave concerts with her, and found some moments of real
bliss in her society, but she finally married another.
A second affair was his love for Marie Wodzinski, whom he had known in
childhood and met at Dresden. She was just nineteen, and endowed with
charming beauty. The pianist-composer spent many an evening with her at
the house of her uncle, and often joined the family in their walks. But
this affair, too, came to no result. The hour for farewell struck, she
gave him a rose, and he improvised a _valse_ for her. This waltz, which
he afterward sent her from Paris, was the one called "L'Adieu."
That Chopin was fickle in his passions is shown by an anecdote of George
Sand's. According to her, he was in love with a young _Parisienne_, who
received him very kindly. All went well until one day he visited her
with another musician, who was at that time better known than Chopin in
Paris. Because the young lady offered this man a chair before thinking
of asking Chopin to be seated, he never called on her again, and
apparently forgot her immediately. George Sand avers that during all
this period he was considering a marriage in Poland, but other
acquaintances do not confirm this part of the story.
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