Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Lady Gladys Parchment is one of the most familiar, as she is one of the
most admired, figures in London society, and to the ordinary observer
she is one of the most happy and fortunate. For is she not exceedingly
beautiful? Does she not come of an old and noble family, though it
be more distinguished in these hard times for pedigree and nobility,
perhaps, than for property? And is she not wedded to a man of splendid
fortune and reputation? True he is some twenty years her senior; but
then, if he were not, he would hardly be of sufficiently mature age
to have attained the dignity of a judgeship, and in this intensely
practical age we are obliged to pay a price for everything. In her
case, Lady Gladys, the daughter of a poor Irish earl, had to pay for
the advantage of marrying a wealthy English judge the price of heavy
disparity in years, with its consequences. And was Sir Drury Parchment
worth the price?
Had Lady Gladys not been born in the purple, so that, by the
conventional aspirations of her order, and a kind of fictional duty to
her rank and station, she was constrained to make a wealthy marriage
or suffer social obscurity, would she not rather have wedded less
advantageously, from a worldly point of view, and more congruously
in a heart sense? But it is very difficult for a girl—with little
experience of the world beyond the ball-room, the tennis-lawn, and the
hunting-field, who cannot possibly realise all that matrimony means—to
argue successfully against the logic of wealth and position, when her
heart remains an unconcerned auditor. Yet marriage either makes or mars
the life of the individual, it cannot leave it _in statu quo_, but must
either complete or disintegrate it. Irrespective of material fortune,
the life of a man or woman may be adjudged a success or a failure
according as it is blessed with the right mate or cursed with the wrong
one. So long as it remains actually mateless, and without the response
of love, it is simply unfinished.
Now, when a beautiful and brilliant woman, with apparently every
worldly advantage at her command, takes a pessimistic view of life,
and assumes a cynical attitude towards the world, you may be sure that
she has married the wrong man, and made a failure of her life. And
you cannot converse long and familiarly with Lady Gladys Parchment
without perceiving this. Her talk may sparkle with wit, and ripple over
with humour, but it will be the keen, biting wit of the cynic, the
bitter humour of the pessimist, and there is no mistaking it for the
pleasantry of cheerful content. Her sarcasm has a grim laughter in it,
but it is as the mocking laughter of disappointed genius when it hears
superficial talent winning the popular plaudits. In society Lady Gladys
shines because of her personal and mental gifts, she loves society
simply for the enjoyment of conquest which it affords, and this has to
make up for so much else in her life. Indeed, she finds so little else
in life at all.
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