Woman—through a man's eyeglassSalaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
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Woman—through a man's eyeglass
Salaman, Malcolm C. (Malcolm Charles)
Single women; Wives -- Anecdotes; Women -- Anecdotes; Women -- Social and moral questions
Major Mayfair Smartly’s new regiment was stationed at Aldershot,
therefore his wife arranged that she should take an elegant flat in
Mayfair, and that he should come up to town constantly, attend her at
any dinners, receptions, or balls to which she might be going, and
return to Aldershot by the early morning train in time for parade. She
was soon in the very whirl of Society, and her pretty face and ready
wit were attracting attention; but her actual fame as a beauty dated,
I think, from one afternoon at Hurlingham. She had been presented at
the last drawing-room, and an illustrious personage had made special
inquiries about her on account of her good looks. This fact had, of
course, reached her, and gladdened her immeasurably, and she was,
therefore, in no way surprised when at Hurlingham that afternoon
she received a gracious intimation of the Prince’s desire to make
her acquaintance. The presentation took place in the presence of a
representative Society gathering, and for the rest of the afternoon she
was honoured of royalty.
After that eventful day, people began to speak of “the new beauty”;
the photographers invited her to sit to them, which she did in every
instance, and the journalists began to take particular note of her
doings, and of her clothes. Henceforth Mrs. Mayfair Smartly was a
social notability; her presence could lend distinction to any party,
and her custom could make the fortune of any dressmaker, for she knew
how to dress.
This may sound trivial and frivolous, but I am not one of those
who profess to think lightly of women for paying much attention to
their dress. I have invariably found that those women who really
understand the art of dress, who know what to wear and how and when
to wear it, possess taste and intelligence of a more refined order
than those who regard costume in the light of mere clothing, and who
not only reveal no appreciation of a woman’s obligation to look her
best at all times, but affect to treat dress altogether as a subject
fit only for the attention of frivolous minds. Charles Lamb said he
hated a man who swallowed his food affecting not to know what he was
eating. He suspected his taste in higher matters. So, when I hear
a woman-of-the-world say she does not care how she looks, or what
she wears, I feel pretty sure she is a woman of no taste, in spite
of possibly much intellectual pretension, and that she is lacking
in personal charm. When a woman says she leaves her costume to her
dressmaker, I know that she has no mind of her own, no invention,
no resource, no sense of the fitness of things, and that, however
beautiful a gown her dressmaker may provide her with, she herself is
sure to wear some incongruous hat or cloak, gloves or shoes, which will
disturb the harmony of her appearance, and so assert her own ignorance.
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