Women of History: Selected from the Writings of Standard AuthorsVarious
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Women of History: Selected from the Writings of Standard Authors
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Women -- Biography
Madame du Deffand was the wittiest, the most selfish, and the most
_ennuye_ of the whole party. Her wit, to be sure, is very enviable and
very entertaining; but it is really consolatory to common mortals to
find how little it could amuse its possessor. This did not proceed in
her, however, from the fastidiousness which is sometimes supposed to
arise from a long familiarity with excellence, so much as from a long
habit of selfishness, or rather from a radical want of heart or
affection. La Harpe says of her, that it was "difficult for any one to
have less sensibility and more egotism." With all this, she was greatly
given to gallantry in her youth, though her attachments, it would seem,
were of a kind not very likely to interfere with her peace of mind. The
very evening her first lover died, after an intimacy of twenty years, La
Harpe assures us "that she came to supper at a grand company at Madame
de Marchius's, where I was; and that, speaking of the loss she had
sustained, she said, 'Alas, he died at six o'clock, otherwise you would
not have seen me here.'" She is also recorded to have frequently
declared that she could never bring herself to love anything, though, in
order to take every possible chance, she had several times attempted to
become _devote_ with no great success. This, we have no doubt, is the
secret of her _ennui_; and a fine example it is of the utter
worthlessness of all talent, accomplishment, and glory, when
disconnected with those feelings of kindness and generosity which are of
themselves sufficient for happiness. Madame du Deffand, however, must
have been delightful to those who sought only for amusement. Her tone is
admirable, her wit flowing and natural; and though a little given to
detraction, and not a little importunate and _exigeante_ towards those
on whose complaisance she had claims, there is always an air of
politeness in her raillery, and of knowledge of the world in her
murmurs, that prevents them from being either wearisome or offensive.
PHOEBE BENTLEY.
[1700.]
CUMBERLAND.
The youngest daughter of the illustrious Dr Bentley was the Phoebe of
Byron's Pastoral. She was a woman of extraordinary accomplishments, and
was the mother of the well-known Richard Cumberland, the most valuable
part of whose early education was due to the taste and intelligence of
this excellent woman. "It was," according to his account, "in these
intervals from school that she began to form both my taste and my ear
for poetry, by employing me every evening to read to her, of which art
she was a very able mistress. Our readings were, with very few
exceptions, confined to the chosen plays of Shakespeare, whom she both
admired and understood in the true spirit and sense of the author. With
all her father's (Dr Bentley's) critical acumen, she could trace and
teach me to unravel all the meanders of Shakespeare's metaphors, and
point out where it illuminated or where it only loaded or obscured the
meaning."
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