Women of History: Selected from the Writings of Standard AuthorsVarious
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Women of History: Selected from the Writings of Standard Authors
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While in Ireland, she was very happy in carrying on a former intimacy
with the famous Dr Jeremy Taylor, the worthy Bishop of Down and Conner,
who addressed to her "A Discourse of the Nature, Offices, and Measures
of Friendship." It is possible that his acquaintance with Mrs Philips
might contribute much towards the good opinion he entertained of the
female sex. It is certain that he was a great admirer of them. "But, by
the way, madam," he says, "you may see how much I differ from the
morosity of those cynics who would not admit your sex into the
communities of a noble friendship. I believe some wives have been the
best friends in the world, and few stories can outdo the nobleness and
piety of that lady that sucked the poisoned purulent matter from the
wound of our brave prince in the holy land, when an assassin had pierced
him with a venomed arrow. And if it be told that women cannot return
counsel, and therefore can be no brave friends, I can best confute them
by the story of Portia. I cannot say that women are capable of all those
excellences by which men can oblige the world; and therefore a female
friend, in some cases, is not so good a counsellor as a wise man, and
cannot so well defend my honour, nor dispose of reliefs and assistances,
if she be under the power of another; but a woman can love as
passionately, and converse as pleasantly, and retain a secret as
faithfully, and be useful in her proper ministries, and she can die for
her friend as well as the bravest Roman knight. A man is the best friend
in trouble, but a woman may be equal to him in the days of joy; a woman
can as well increase our comforts, but cannot so well lessen our
sorrows, and therefore we do not carry women with us when we go to
fight; but, in peaceful cities and times, virtuous women are the
beauties of society and the prettinesses of friendship."
Mrs Philips went for a time into a sort of melancholy retirement,
occasioned, perhaps, by the bad success of her husband's affairs; and,
going to London in order to relieve her oppressed spirits with the
conversation of her friends there, she was seized by the small-pox, and
died in her thirty-third year. Mr Aubrey observes that her person was of
a middle stature, pretty fat, and ruddy complexion.
MADAME DE MAINTENON.
[BORN 1635. DIED 1719.]
ST SIMON.
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