Ireland -- History -- Rebellion of 1798; Women -- Ireland -- Biography
The letters addressed by Samuel Neilson to his wife and children from
Fort George, and carefully preserved by the tender piety of his
daughters, exhibit him, as a husband and father, in a very favourable
light. He is deeply concerned about his children’s education, of which
he would make religion the foundation, and a certain stoicism and the
unflinching acceptance of life’s sternest realities, the backbone. Even
when he was in Newgate, awaiting his fate, which seemed then likely to
be that of the Sheareses, McCann and Bond, the direction of the
children’s education is of supreme interest to him. “Oh, let me entreat
you once more to rear them hardily, to do everything in the house in
turn. To William, reading, writing, English well—no other language nor
dancing; to the girls the same, with knitting and sewing, but no tambour
nonsense. Let their dresses be plain and homely, befitting their state;
and of all things labour to form their minds by curbing pride and
inciting to virtue and industry, not by scolding and whipping or
cajoling, but by _emulation_, which is by far the safest and surest
incentive to exertion.” He warns his wife to guard them against foolish
fears, whether of “ghost and fairies and hobgoblins,” or of fever. The
remedy he proposes against either is the inculcation of a perfect trust
in God. “Let then the children learn that God alone is present
everywhere, and that darkness is subjected to his power.” And again:
“impress upon them without ceasing this great truth—that Providence
cares for all its creatures.” One loves to quote the educational maxims
he lays down for his children for their soundness, and universal
applicability:
“There is no part of education more essential than that which gives an
early knowledge of the world; but above all it is necessary to keep the
young mind _employed_, not to forced tasks or unreasonable attention,
but to something (either of utility or amusement, and these can easily
be united) so that the mind be not left to wander, and to become
familiarised with the frivolity that is the fashion of the age; for that
will certainly cause it to take a wrong direction. I hope you are also
fully sensible that the only useful control is that over _the feelings_,
not that which arises from _personal dread_.”
“With respect to the spiritual direction of our children, I hope you
will bear in mind this important lesson, that you will yourself educate
our children in the true principles of Christianity, which believe me
are not to be acquired by a mere _Sunday show_. No! they are to be
instilled in the life and conversation, and that only by precept and
example.... Continue to teach them a love of _truth_ and _Christianity_,
with an utter abhorrence of falsehood and hypocrisy. There is a maxim of
an ancient heathen author, which my father recommended to me when I was
a boy; it had a great effect on my mind at the time, and is worth your
teaching them; it is thus translated:
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