Women of the Romance Countries (Illustrated): Woman: In all ages and in all countries Vol. 6 (of 10)Effinger, John R. (John Robert)
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Women of the Romance Countries (Illustrated): Woman: In all ages and in all countries Vol. 6 (of 10)
Effinger, John R. (John Robert)
Women -- Italy -- History; Women -- Spain -- History
This seclusion of the young girls is in itself a sufficient comment upon
the sentiments of honor and duty which are current among the male
portion of the population, and it is plain that this condition of
affairs can find little betterment until the nation finds new social
ideals. Such conditions as these are mediaeval, or Oriental at best, and
it is to be hoped that the newer education which is now influencing
Spain may help to bring about a better and saner view of the social
intercourse of men and women. As a direct result of the general
attitude, the men upon the streets of a Spanish city will often surprise
a foreigner by their cool insolence in the presence of the women they
may happen to meet. Her appearance is made the subject for much audible
comment, and such exclamations as _Ay! que buenos ojos! Que bonita
eres!_ [Oh! what fine eyes! How pretty you are!] are only too common.
The woman thus characterized will modify her conduct according to the
necessities of the situation; and if her casual admirer happens to be
young and good-looking and she herself is not averse to flattery, she
will reward him with a quick smile. In any case, the whole matter is
treated as an ordinary occurrence, as it is, and no insult is felt where
none is intended. Such remarks are but an expression, which is
oftentimes naive, of the admiration which is felt at the sight of
unusual feminine charms. The incident simply goes to show that
everywhere in Spain there is tacit recognition of the general
inferiority of women. In the laboring and peasant classes, where the
women work with the men, such lapses from the conventional standard of
good manners would not cause so much comment; but under these
circumstances the dangers and the annoyances are not so great, as these
women of the people, with their practical experience in life, ignorant
as they may be, are often more competent to take care of themselves than
are their more carefully educated sisters in polite society who have
been so carefully fenced from harm.
[Illustration 6:
_SPANISH POST-NUPTIAL OBSERVANCES
After the painting by J. Agrasot y Juan
Marriage laws and customs may always be considered as telling bits of
evidence in the discussion of any question of this nature. As the result
of an enlightened public sentiment, which is somewhat unexpected in that
it is in advance of many other social customs, there is a law which
gives a girl the right to marry the man of her choice, even against her
parents' wishes. No father can compel his daughter to marry against her
will; and if there is any attempt to force her in the matter, she is
entitled to claim the protection of a magistrate, who is empowered by
law to protect her from such oppression._]
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