Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-trainingPuller, Edwin Seward
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Your boy and his training : $b A practical treatise on boy-training
Puller, Edwin Seward
Boys; Child rearing
The boy at the rear end of a lighted cigarette has little chance of
obtaining a position from a business man. Even the telltale yellowish
discoloration of the fingers and the cigarette stench of his breath
give sufficient warning for the employer to inform the applicant that
he is not wanted. It takes a strong body and a clear mind to succeed
in competitive business. The boy handicapped in the race of life by
the cigarette habit is in the same condition as the sprinter who is
hopelessly handicapped in a hundred-yard dash; neither has any chance
of winning. John V. Farwell, the Chicago merchant, is quoted as saying:
“I would as lief employ a boy who steals sheep as one who smokes
cigarettes. One is no more to be trusted than the other.” To the same
effect is this warning of a well-known English physician: “A boy who
early smokes is rarely known to make a man of much energy and character
and he generally lacks physical and mental as well as moral energy.”
This subject is big with importance for the boy’s future. It is one of
the great boy-problems and it should be discussed frankly by father
and son before puberty, soon after which period so many boys acquire
the habit. It may be difficult for the father, with a cigar in his
mouth, to persuade his son that tobacco is injurious, but whether the
father is a smoker or not, a thorough discussion of the subject in all
its aspects is sure to prove beneficial. As the boy at this age is in
the hero-worship period and as his heroes in early adolescence are
always athletes, an appeal to his innate longing to attain physical
perfection and athletic distinction will be found more potent than
the appeal for mental or moral perfection, although the latter should
not be neglected. The additional grounds of abstinence from motives
of personal purity and self-respect have their effect, although the
argument that he should not needlessly cause annoyance or discomfort
to others has little weight with a boy prior to the reflective period.
If such warning is given to the boy before he contracts the habit it
will usually prove effective. Some parents conclude their instruction
with the statement that the son, on attaining his physical maturity at
approximately twenty-four years of age--when the danger of nicotine
poisoning on the growing boy has passed--may then make his own decision
as to whether he will or will not smoke.
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