When the handicapped youth, however, is in full possession of his
faculties, and can move about freely, he is perforce drawn into all
the currents of life. Particularly if he has his own way in the world
to make, his road is apt to be hard and rugged, and he will penetrate
to an unusual depth in his interpretation both of the world’s attitude
toward such misfortunes, and of the attitude toward the world which
such misfortunes tend to cultivate in men like him. For he has all the
battles of a stronger man to fight, and he is at a double disadvantage
in fighting them. He has constantly with him the sense of being obliged
to make extra efforts to overcome the bad impression of his physical
defects, and he is haunted with a constant feeling of weakness and
low vitality which makes effort more difficult and renders him easily
faint-hearted and discouraged by failure. He is never confident of
himself, because he has grown up in an atmosphere where nobody has been
very confident of him; and yet his environment and circumstances call
out all sorts of ambitions and energies in him which, from the nature
of his case, are bound to be immediately thwarted. This attitude is
likely to keep him at a generally low level of accomplishment unless he
have an unusually strong will, and a strong will is perhaps the last
thing to develop under such circumstances.
The handicapped man is always conscious that the world does not
expect very much from him. And it takes him a long time to see in
this a challenge instead of a firm pressing down to a low level of
accomplishment. As a result, he does not expect very much of himself;
he is timid in approaching people, and distrustful of his ability to
persuade and convince. He becomes extraordinarily sensitive to other
people’s first impressions of him. Those who are to be his friends he
knows instantly, and further acquaintance adds little to the intimacy
and warm friendship that he at once feels for them. On the other hand,
those who do not respond to him immediately cannot by any effort either
on his part or theirs overcome that first alienation.
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