So to all the handicapped and the unappreciated, I would say,--Grow up
as fast as you can. Cultivate the widest interests you can, and cherish
all your friends. Cultivate some artistic talent, for you will find
it the most durable of satisfactions, and perhaps one of the surest
means of livelihood as well. Achievement is, of course, on the knees of
the gods; but you will at least have the thrill of trial, and, after
all, not to try is to fail. Taking your disabilities for granted, and
assuming constantly that they are being taken for granted, make your
social intercourse as broad and as constant as possible. Do not take
the world too seriously, nor let too many social conventions oppress
you. Keep sweet your sense of humor, and above all do not let any
morbid feelings of inferiority creep into your soul. You will find
yourself sensitive enough to the sympathy of others, and if you do not
find people who like you and are willing to meet you more than halfway,
it will be because you have let your disability narrow your vision and
shrink up your soul. It will be really your own fault, and not that of
your circumstances. In a word, keep looking outward; look out eagerly
for those things that interest you, for people who will interest you
and be friends with you, for new interests and for opportunities to
express yourself. You will find that your disability will come to have
little meaning for you, that it will begin to fade quite completely out
of your sight; you will wake up some fine morning and find yourself,
after all the struggles that seemed so bitter to you, really and truly
adjusted to the world.
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