My intercourse with Rossetti, epistolary and personal, extended over a
period of between three and four years. During the first two of these
years I was, as this volume must show, his constant correspondent,
during the third year his attached friend, and during the portion of
the fourth year of our acquaintance terminating with his life, his daily
companion and housemate. It is a part of my purpose to help towards the
elucidation of Rossetti’s personal character by a simple, and I
trust, unaffected statement of my relations to him, and so I begin by
explaining that my knowledge of the man was the sequel to my admiration
of the poet. Not accident (the agency that usually operates in such
cases), but his genius and my love of it, began the friendship between
us. Of Rossetti’s pictorial art I knew little, until very recent years,
beyond what could be gathered from a few illustrations to books. My
acquaintance with his poetry must have been made at the time of the
publication of the first volume in 1870, but as I did not then possess a
copy of the book, and do not remember to have seen one, my knowledge of
the work must have been merely such as could be gleaned from the reading
of reviews. The unlucky controversy, that subsequently arose out of it,
directed afresh my attention, in common with that of others, to Rossetti
and his school of poetry, with the result of impressing my mind with
qualities of the work that were certainly quite outside the issues
involved in the discussion. Some two or three years after that
acrimonious controversy had subsided, an accident, sufficiently curious
to warrant my describing it, produced the effect of converting me from a
temperate believer in the charm of music and colour in Rossetti’s lyric
verse, to an ardent admirer of his imaginative genius as displayed in
the higher walks of his art.