Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
David Hume · en
But where is the poor little bride all this time? We have neither
seen nor heard her all day long, and yet the feast is supposed to
be in her honour. All through the long, hot June day she has been
cooped up in a tiny room, and as sunset approaches her friends and
relations go to dress her and to decorate her from head to foot with
jewellery and finery. Into her hair is woven a quantity of golden
thread, so that in the distance it looks like a mass of gold, and
must be very heavy on the poor tired little head. She is brought
out into a large room, and seated on a chair in the middle of it;
then every one goes up to her, and after kissing her, says, "May
you be blessed." The poor little mite (she might be thirteen years
old, but hardly looks it) seems absolutely wretched and miserable,
and when food is brought to her refuses to eat. Just at sunset she
is taken to her husband's house in a closed carriage, and our hearts
must ache as we think of what is in store for her. Even if her husband
is kind to her at first, yet she has nothing much to look forward to
but misery and degradation, and if by chance she goes to an anderoon
already containing two or three wives, then may God take pity on her,
for her fate will be a sad one. As soon as a man marries a girl she
is absolutely his property, and he may do exactly as he pleases with
her; there is no redress for the poor unfortunate girl. If the man
is a brute and half kills his wife no one dare say a word to him,
or if perchance there is one brave enough, he will only be told that
"the girl is his wife, and he can do as he likes with his own," and
so it is no wonder if the shadow of the future lies darkly on the
faces of those poor little children, as they leave their mother's
home as brides to go out into the unknown which lies before them.
I remember a poor little girl who was brought to the hospital in Julfa,
while we were there. She had been married to a brutal man, when about
eleven years old. Being very unhappy with him, she often used to run
away and take refuge with her mother, who lived in a village a mile
or two away from her husband's house. On many occasions he had beaten
her severely for some childish fault, and each time she had fled to
her mother, and stayed with her till her husband came and carried
her off again by force. This went on for some time, till the poor
child's life was nothing but wretchedness and misery.
One day she displeased her husband by not cooking the dinner to
his liking, and he was so enraged with her that he behaved in the
following abominable manner.