Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East — David Hume — John Shaqi
Behind the Veil in Persia and Turkish Arabia: An Account of an Englishwoman's Eight Years' Residence Amongst the Women of the East
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When the day arrived we arrayed ourselves in gala attire, and set
out to the house of the bride. It was just midnight when we arrived,
and already the guests, some hundreds of them, had been feasting
for hours--in fact, I might say "days," for this was the seventh
and last day of the wedding festivities, and many of the guests
had been present each day. They all looked thoroughly worn-out and
tired. A room had been set apart for the Europeans to dine in, and
just after midnight a most sumptuous dinner was served, consisting
of about a dozen courses. When this had been satisfactorily disposed
of we dispersed to visit the different rooms occupied by the guests,
my husband remaining with the men, while I and another English lady
sought out the bride to give her our salaams and good wishes. The
confusion was terrible--drums beating, cymbals clashing, women dancing
and singing, children yelling and crying, and amid it all, seated
upon the ground, sat the poor little bride-elect. No one seemed to
be taking much notice of her, every one apparently aiming to amuse
herself in the most noisy way possible.
By-and-by a large, silk-covered cushion was brought out from a
back room, and on this the bride was placed, and covered entirely
with a large silk shawl. I wondered what was going to happen next,
when suddenly a group of men appeared at the door. These were the
representatives of the bridegroom, who came to ask formally for the
hand of the bride. They came and stood in front of the covered-up
bride, and called in a loud voice, "Oh, my daughter, will you
consent to be the bride of this man?" (naming the bridegroom). This
was repeated six times amidst a silence which could be felt, all
listening for the answer of the bride. On their repeating the question
the seventh time, a very timid "Balli" (Yes) was heard coming from
the region of the shawl, upon which the commotion started again with
redoubled vigour, in the excitement caused by the acceptance on the
part of the bride of her bridegroom. Of course this was a mere form,
as everything had been arranged long beforehand. I shocked one good
old lady by asking what would happen if the bride had said "No"
instead of "Yes" to the oft-repeated question!