A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer
John Locke · en
That was a lovely evening. General Stuart had Sweeny, his banjo-player,
in. Sweeny was a dignified, solemn-looking man, but couldn’t he play
merry tunes on that banjo, and sad ones too! making you laugh and cry
with his playing and his singing.
“When the sad, chilly winds of December
Stole my flowers, my companions, from me.”
That was one of his mournful favorites. And you heard the jingle of
spurs in his rollicking:
“If you want a good time,
Jine the cavalry,
Bully boys, hey!”
We called for “Old Joe Hooker, won’t you Come Out of the Wilderness?”
and “O Johnny Booker, help this Nigger!” and “O Lord, Ladies, don’t
you mind Stephen!” and “Sweet Evelina,” and--oh! I can’t remember them
all, but if you choose to read Esten Cooke, he will tell you all about
Sweeny’s songs and banjo. Stuart sang “The Dew is on the Blossom” and
“The Bugles sang Truce.” He made Sweeny give, twice over, “Sweet Nellie
is by my Side,” and sat himself down beside me, and tried to tease Dan
because he sat at table with me every day and Dan couldn’t. In spite
of everything I was very happy in those old days at the Bradfords’! I
was not yet out of my teens, you know; so I hope I was not very much
to blame because I was always ready for a romp across that lawn at
Mr. Bradford’s with the commander-in-chief of the Southern cavalry.
His was the gentlest, merriest, sweetest-tempered soul I ever knew.
He was always ready to sympathize with me, to tease me, and to help
me. Whenever he teased me out of conceit with myself or him, he always
would put me in a good humor by saying nice things about Dan, or
sending a courier after him.
He had an idea that I was very plucky, and in after days when I was
ready to show the white feather, Dan would shame me by asking, “What
would General Stuart say?”
Mr. Bradford and his wife, “Aunt Sally,” were characters. Mr. Bradford
was a very quiet, peaceable man; Aunt Sally was strong-minded, and had
a tongue and mind of her own. Mr. Bradford had a good deal of property
and stayed out of the army to take care of it. I think Aunt Sally made
him stay out of the war for this reason, but she made home about as
hot for him as the field would have been. I can’t think he stayed at
home to keep out of war, for he was in war all the time. Aunt Sally
continually twitted him with staying at home, although she made him
do it. She was always sure to do this when the table was filled with
Confederate officers.
“The place for a _man_,” she would say, “is on the field. Just give me
the chance to fight! Just give me the chance to fight, and see where
I’ll be!”
And General Stuart would convulse me by whispering: “I don’t think she
needs a chance to fight, do you?”