Camille (La Dame aux Camilias) — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Camille (La Dame aux Camilias)
John Stuart Mill · en
“Ah, my dear fellow, how old-fashioned you are! How many of the richest
and most fashionable men of the best families I have seen quite ready
to do what I advise you to do, and without an effort, without shame,
without remorse! Why, one sees it every day. How do you suppose the
kept women in Paris could live in the style they do, if they had not
three or four lovers at once? No single fortune, however large, could
suffice for the expenses of a woman like Marguerite. A fortune of five
hundred thousand francs a year is, in France, an enormous fortune;
well, my dear friend, five hundred thousand francs a year would still
be too little, and for this reason: a man with such an income has a
large house, horses, servants, carriages; he shoots, has friends, often
he is married, he has children, he races, gambles, travels, and what
not. All these habits are so much a part of his position that he can
not forego them without appearing to have lost all his money, and
without causing scandal. Taking it all round, with five hundred
thousand francs a year he can not give a woman more than forty or fifty
thousand francs in the year, and that is already a good deal. Well,
other lovers make up for the rest of her expenses. With Marguerite, it
is still more convenient; she has chanced by a miracle on an old man
worth ten millions, whose wife and daughter are dead; who has only some
nephews, themselves rich, and who gives her all she wants without
asking anything in return. But she can not ask him for more than
seventy thousand francs a year; and I am sure that if she did ask for
more, despite his health and the affection he has for her he would not
give it to her.
“All the young men of twenty or thirty thousand francs a year at Paris,
that is to say, men who have only just enough to live on in the society
in which they mix, know perfectly well, when they are the lovers of a
woman like Marguerite, that she could not so much as pay for the rooms
she lives in and the servants who wait upon her with what they give
her. They do not say to her that they know it; they pretend not to see
anything, and when they have had enough of it they go their way. If
they have the vanity to wish to pay for everything they get ruined,
like the fools they are, and go and get killed in Africa, after leaving
a hundred thousand francs of debt in Paris. Do you think a woman is
grateful to them for it? Far from it. She declares that she has
sacrificed her position for them, and that while she was with them she
was losing money. These details seem to you shocking? Well, they are
true. You are a very nice fellow; I like you very much. I have lived
with these women for twenty years; I know what they are worth, and I
don’t want to see you take the caprice that a pretty girl has for you
too seriously.