The reasons that may exist for limiting the progeny of each particular
pair cannot be formulated into a code, for these are questions of
conscience, between the individuals and their Creator, on the
one hand, and on the other, they should be influenced by economic
conditions and physical or constitutional taints of the progenitors.
I do not believe in the truth of the law of Malthus, that there
is a tendency for population to increase faster than the means of
subsistence, but I am inclined to the view held by John Stuart Mill,
that “no one has a right to bring children into life to be supported
by other people.” But when the same eminent authority designates the
procreative act as brute instinct, I think he is in great error, for
that is not so. Conjugal affection and the sentiment of love spring
from the reproductive systems, through the reflex action of the brain,
and these have their moral significance, and should not be branded as
brutal, for upon their normal functions depends the perpetuation of the
race, and as it was so ordained by the Creator, it cannot be an unholy
passion.
To be physically strong and well are the prerequisites for happiness,
and if we cannot transmit to our offspring this essential quality,
it would be much better for society if we were not instrumental in
bringing defective children into the world. The competitive struggle
for existence is hard enough for the vigorous and robust; how much
greater must it be for the constitutionally infirm? When these
conditions of infirmity exist, they should influence our course as
progenitors; this appears to me self-evident, and I trust in the wisdom
that is innate to the human soul, that only the best ends will be
subserved.
An expedient that is to accomplish the object in view, must be in
the nature of a wholesome sanitary measure, that violates no law of
nature. The inordinate use of any preventive, coupled with excessive
indulgence, cannot be without ill effects. Excesses must be studiously
avoided, so as not to incur the diseases of which mention has
already been made. The employment of a vaginal douche of the proper
temperature, medicated with a little pure alcohol, is not injurious and
is the most reliable of all preventives, provided it is intelligently
used and without delay. The quantity of fluid to be used is a _quart_
of warm water, of 103 to 105 degrees Fahr., to which two tablespoonfuls
of alcohol is added; of this, three-fourths or all is to be douched
through the vagina.