A Belle of the Fifties: Memoirs of Mrs. Clay of Alabama, covering social and political life in Washington and the South, 1853-1866. Put into narrative form by Ada Sterling — John Shaqi
A Belle of the Fifties: Memoirs of Mrs. Clay of Alabama, covering social and political life in Washington and the South, 1853-1866. Put into narrative form by Ada SterlingClay-Clopton, Virginia
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A Belle of the Fifties: Memoirs of Mrs. Clay of Alabama, covering social and political life in Washington and the South, 1853-1866. Put into narrative form by Ada Sterling
Clay-Clopton, Virginia
Clay-Clopton, Virginia, 1825-1915; Confederate States of America -- Social life and customs; Southern States -- Social life and customs -- 1775-1865; United States -- History -- Civil War, 1861-1865 -- Personal narratives, Confederate; Washington (D.C.) -- Social life and customs -- 19th century
My personal favourite of all the Cabinet Ministers was the Secretary of
the Navy, J. C. Dobbin. He was a North Carolinian, and the children of
my native State were always dear to me. Being a widower, Mr. Dobbin’s
home was also closed from formal entertainment, but the Secretary was
seen now and then in society, where he was much sought after (though not
always found) by the leading hostesses, whenever he consented to mingle
with it. In his parlours, which now and then he opened to his most
favoured friends, he kept on exhibition for years, sealed under a glass
case, the suit in which Dr. Kane, the Arctic explorer, had lived during
his sojourn among the icy seas.
Secretary Dobbin was a small man; in truth, a duodecimo edition of his
sex, and exquisitely presented—a fact which was as freely yielded by his
confrères as by his gentler admirers. A man of conspicuous
intellectuality and firmness in the administration of his department,
his heart was also very tender. Of this he once gave me an especially
treasured demonstration.
My friend, Emily Spicer, wife of Lieutenant William F. Spicer, afterward
Commander of the Boston Navy Yard, at a very critical time, was suddenly
obliged, by the exigencies of the Naval Service, to see her husband
prepare for what promised to be a long, and, it might prove, a final
separation. Tenderly attached to each other, the young husband at last
literally tore himself from his wife, leaving her in an unconscious
state, from which she did not recover for many hours. Grave fears were
entertained as to the disastrous effect the parting would have upon the
young matron.
Having witnessed the sad scene, I went at once to Secretary Dobbin and
told him of it. His eyes lighted up most sympathetically, even while he
explained to me the necessity for adhering strictly to the rules of the
Service, but, even as he marshalled the obstacles to my plea, by
intuition I knew his heart was stirred, and when I parted from him, he
said, “Comfort her, dear Mrs. Clay, with this assurance: If Spicer is on
the high seas he shall be ordered home; if he has arrived in Italy” (for
which coast the Lieutenant’s ship was booked) “he shall remain there and
his wife may join him.” I went away grateful for his sympathy for my
stricken friend, and hastened to soothe her.
The Secretary kept his word. In a few passing weeks the young couple
were reunited on the coast of Italy. “God bless you, my dear Madame,”
wrote Lieutenant Spicer, thereupon. “I am forever thankfully yours!” And
they kept a promise I had exacted, and named the baby, which proved to
be a boy, after my dear husband! Long after his distinguished namesake
had vanished from the world’s stage, a bearded man of thirty came across
the ocean and a continent to greet me, his “second mother,” as he had
been taught to think of me by my grateful friend, his mother, Mrs.
Spicer.
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