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“The personal facts are these: On June 16th I delivered a Commencement
address at a girls’ college in Boston, taking for my subject the
common objections to the higher education of women, objections
generally rather felt than formulated by hesitating mothers. Five were
mentioned: the danger to health, to manners, to marriage, to religion,
and to companionship with parents in the home. These I described from
the parents’ point of view, and then pointed out the misconceptions
on which I believed them to rest. In speaking of manners, I said that
a mother often fears that attention to study may make her daughter
awkward, keep her unfamiliar with the general world, and leave her
unfit for mixed society. To which I replied that in the rare cases
where intellectual interests do for a time overshadow the social, we
may well bear in mind the relative difficulties of subsequent repair.
A girl who has had only social interests before twenty-one does not
usually gain intellectual ones afterwards; while the ways of the world
are rapidly acquired by any young woman of brains. To illustrate, I
told of a strong student of Radcliffe who had lived much withdrawn
during her course there, alarming her uncollegiate parents by her
slender interest in social functions. At graduation they pressed her
to devote a year to balls and dinners and to what they regarded as the
occult art of manners. She came to me for counsel, and I advised her
to accede to their wishes. ‘Flirt hard, M.,’ said I, ‘and show that a
college girl is equal to whatever is required of her.’ This was the
only allusion to the naughty topic which my speech, an hour in length,
contained.
“That evening one of the ‘yellowest’ of the Boston papers printed a
report of my ‘Address on Flirtation,’ and the next day a reporter came
from the same paper requesting an interview. The interview I refused,
saying that I had given no such address and I wished my name kept
altogether out of print. The following Sunday, however, the bubble
was fully blown, the paper printing a column of pretended interview,
generously adorned with headlines and quotation marks, setting forth
in gay colors my ‘advocacy of flirtation.’
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