A Day at a Time, and Other Talks on Life and ReligionAlexander, Archibald
Religion
A Day at a Time, and Other Talks on Life and Religion
Alexander, Archibald
Sermons, English
Second, THINK THE BEST OF EVERYBODY. There is a winsome legend that
Jesus once revealed Himself in this way:--A knot of idlers had gathered
in the street round a dead dog. One remarked how mangy and unkempt its
hide was. Another said, "What ugly ears!" But a stranger, who had come
forward, said, "Pearls are not whiter than its teeth!" And men said to
one another, "This must be Jesus of Nazareth, for nobody but He would
find something good even in a dead dog." Certainly it is the mark of
the most Christlike men and women that they delight rather in
emphasising the merest speck of goodness than in denouncing the too
visible evil. We can, all too easily, see the fault in another. What
we cannot see is the heart of the defaulter, the weight of temptation he
struggled under, and his bitter inner penitence. "Granted," as Carlyle
says, "the ship comes into harbour with shrouds and tackle damaged; the
pilot is blameworthy. He has not been all-wise and all-powerful. But,
to know how blameworthy, tell us first whether his voyage has been round
the globe, or only to Ramsgate and the Isle of Dogs."
The way to get the best out of people is to think the best about them.
Let a man see that you have good hopes of him, and recognise what is
best in him, and, in ways of which science can give no explanation, you
add to his chances of reaching better things. In any case, who would
not wish to stand on Christ’s side rather than on Judas’s. "This
ointment might have been sold for three hundred pence and given to the
poor." That is Judas. "Let her alone. Why trouble ye her? She hath
wrought a good work in me. She hath done what she could." That is
Jesus Christ.
Third,--Don’t leave yourself out of the picture. HOPE THE BEST FOR
YOURSELF. George Eliot, in her "Scenes of Clerical Life," gives, in one
chapter, an account of how the Rev. Amos Barton is criticised and
discussed in his parish. In the next chapter we see the Rev. Amos
himself going on his way blissfully unconscious of the poor opinion in
which he is held, believing quite honestly in himself, and not a little
proud of his abilities. "We are poor plants," says this keen student of
character, "buoyed up by the air vessels of our own conceit." And a
blessed thing, too, when you think of it! If we only knew all the
disparaging remarks people make about us, we should never face up to our
duties at all. What helps us along is our innocent belief in our
powers, in the esteem in which we are held--our little conceits, if you
like. Since they send us to our tasks with more spirit, and keep us at
them with more determination, aren’t they good things in their way? They
are indeed just a lower form of that hope that we are speaking
of--Hope’s poor relations.
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