A Day in Old Athens; a Picture of Athenian LifeDavis, William Stearns
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A Day in Old Athens; a Picture of Athenian Life
Davis, William Stearns
Athens (Greece) -- Social life and customs
Of course the well-to-do Athenian is proud to possess certain
“valuables.” He will have a few silver cups elegantly chased, and at
least one diner’s couch in the _andron_ will be made of rare imported
wood, and be inlaid with gilt or silver. On festival days the house
will be hung with brilliant and elaborately wrought tapestries which
will suddenly emerge from the great chests. Also, despite frowns and
criticisms, the custom is growing of decorating one’s walls with
bright-lined frescoes after the manner of the Agora colonnades. In the
course of a few generations the homes of the wealthier Greeks will come
to resemble those of the Romans, such as a later age has resurrected at
Pompeii.
Chapter V.
The Women of Athens.
27. How Athenian Marriages are Arranged.—Over this typical Athenian
home reigns the wife of the master. Public opinion frowns upon
celibacy, and there are relatively few unmarried men in Athens. An
Athenian girl is brought up with the distinct expectation of
matrimony.[*] Opportunities for a romance almost never will come her
way; but it is the business of her parents to find her a suitable
husband. If they are kindly people of good breeding, their choice is
not likely to be a very bad one. If they have difficulties, they can
engage a professional “matchmaker,” a shrewd old woman who, for a fee,
will hunt out an eligible young man. Marriage is contracted primarily
that there may be legitimate children to keep up the state and to
perpetuate the family. That the girl should have any will of her own
in the matter is almost never thought of. Very probably she has never
seen “Him,” save when they both were marching in a public religious
procession, or at some rare family gathering (a marriage or a funeral)
when there were outside guests. Besides she will be “given away” when
only about fifteen, and probably has formed no intelligent opinion or
even prejudices on the subject.
[*] The vile custom of exposing unwelcome female babies probably
created a certain preponderance of males in Attica, and made it
relatively easy to marry off a desirable young girl.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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