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A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate Bowne
Bowne, Eliza Southgate
Bowne, Eliza Southgate, 1783-1809; United States -- Social life and customs -- 1783-1865
Pardon, my dear Sir, the liberty I take in addressing you, and let my
motives shield me from the imputation of presumption. Some time since,
you requested a list of my Aunt Porter’s and our family. It has never
been sent, and as we have now a very favorable opportunity, my father
has requested me to make it out and enclose it to you. I tremble while I
write, lest I should appear disrespectful in my manner of addressing
you. Unused as I am to writing to any one so much superior in years, I
cannot but feel embarrassed. A degree of confidence in ourselves is
necessary in every undertaking to ensure success; as I feel at this
moment destitute of that confidence, I likewise despair of succeeding in
my wishes, yet I entreat you to attribute whatever may appear assuming
rather to an incapacity of expressing myself as I wish than to a want of
respect. When I consider you as a public character esteemed and
respected by your country, I would willingly shrink from observation,
lest my intruding myself on your attention should be thought
impertinence. But when I think how nearly I am allied, I flatter myself
I shall obtain that indulgence which I now earnestly solicit. Mr. and
Mrs. Derby, by whom I shall send this, intend taking the tour of Europe
after having taken that of the United States. Mrs. Derby is my
particular friend, and as she is intimately acquainted in our family,
can give you whatever information you wish respecting us. I say nothing
to remind her, for I have too high an opinion of your discernment to
suppose any recommendation necessary. My mother joins me in desiring you
would make our respects acceptable to Mrs. King, and all the family
unite in earnest wishes for the complete restoration of her health. Our
family are all in good health.... My mother really looks young! My Aunt
Porter [Pauline] is not wholly restored to her former health, but is
much better than she has been for many years past.
[Illustration:
Mrs. RUFUS KING.
After a portrait by Trumbull.
ARTOTYPE. E. BIERSTADT, N. Y.
]
I cannot conclude this without earnestly intreating you to receive it
with the candor of an Uncle rather than the severity of a critic. I feel
I do not write as I ought to, yet I entreat you not to think me
deficient in that respect and esteem with which I shall ever remain.
Your niece ELIZA SOUTHGATE.
Scarborough, August 4, 1801.
Dr. Southgate to Rufus King in London.
You will receive this by Mr. Richard Derby, youngest son of the late H.
Derby of Salem. His lady who accompanies him is the daughter of Dr. N.
Coffin of Portland. The Doctor’s family and mine have ever been on terms
of intimacy and friendship. Mrs. Derby in particular has ever been a
favorite of my daughters Octavia and Eliza. They can give you all
particulars about friends at home.
Bath, Sunday, Sept. 13.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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