A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
[Footnote 416: Sack-posset was compounded of milk, spirits,
and other ingredients; and it was eaten with a spoon: SEWALL'S
_Diary_, in 5 _Mass. Hist. Coll._, VI, 403, note. On the
wonderful mixed drinks of the New England Puritans see MRS.
EARLE'S delightful chapter on "Old Colonial Drinks and Drinkers,"
_Customs and Fashions_, 163-83; and also BLISS, _Side Glimpses
from the Colonial Meeting-House_, 12-28.]
[Footnote 417: LODGE, _Short History_, 462, 463; _cf._ SANFORD,
_Hist. of Conn._, 125. BAILEY, _Hist. Sketches of Andover_,
74-78, gives interesting details as to weddings and marriage
settlements; and BROOKS, _Olden Time Series: Days of the
Spinning-Wheel_, 32, 33, reprints specimens of marriage notices
taken from newspapers of the eighteenth century. On these
festivities, advertisements, and settlements see also EARLE,
_Customs and Fashions_, 60-77.]
Of the New England marriage celebration at the beginning of the
eighteenth century we have some vivid, though imperfect, sketches
from the inimitable pen of Judge Sewall. Next to funerals, weddings
seem to have been his chief recreation. The brief and naïve entries
in his _Diary_ reveal to us the mingled praying, psalm-singing, and
posset which enlivened those festive occasions. Thus on October 22,
1713, he writes: "I go to Salem.... See Mr. Noyes marry Mr. Aaron
Porter and Mrs. Susan Sewall, at my Brother's. Was a pretty deal of
Company present.... Mr. Noyes made a Speech, said Love was the Sugar
to sweeten every condition in the married Relation. Pray'd once. Did
all very well. After the Sack-Posset, etc., Sung the 45th Psalm
from the 8th verse to the end, five staves. I set it to Windsor
Tune. I had a very good Turkey-Leather Psalm-Book which I look'd in
while Mr. Noyes Read: and then I gave it to the Bridegroom saying,
'I give you this Psalm-Book in order to your perpetuating this song:
and I would have you pray that it may be an Introduction to our
Singing with the Choir above.'"[418]
[Footnote 418: SEWALL'S _Diary_, in 5 _Mass. Hist. Coll._, VI,
403.]
Again in 1720 we find him solemnizing the marriage of his daughter,
Mrs. Judith Sewall, with Mr. William Cooper. "I said to Mr. Simeon
Stoddard and his wife, Sir, Madam, The Great Honor you have
conferr'd on the Bridegroom and the Bride, by being present at this
Solemnity does very conveniently supercede any further enquiry after
your Consent. And the part I am desired to take in this Wedding,
renders the way of my giving my Consent very Compendious: There's no
maner of room left for that previous Question, Who giveth this Woman
to be married to this Man? Dear child, you give me your Hand for one
moment, and the Bridegroom forever. Spouse, You Accept and receive
this Woman now given you, etc. Mr. Sewall pray'd before the Wedding,
and Mr. Coleman after. Sung the 115. Psalm from the 9. verse to the
end, in the New Hall, St. David's which I set. Then we had our Cake
and Sack-posset."[419]
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