A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
[Footnote 559: _Queesting_ (a seeking, similar to English
"quest") seems to have existed until last century on the islands
of Vlie, Wieringen, and perhaps elsewhere in Holland. "At night
the lover has access to his mistress after she is in bed; and,
upon an application to be admitted upon the bed, which is of
course granted, he raises the quilt, or rug, and in this state
_queests_, or enjoys a harmless chit-chat with her, and then
retires. This custom meets with perfect sanction of the most
circumspect parents, and the freedom is seldom abused. The author
traces its origin to the parsimony of the people, whose economy
considers fire and candles as superfluous luxuries in the long
winter evenings."--STILES, _op. cit._, 35, 36, citing CARR, _The
Stranger in Ireland_ (1807).]
[Footnote 560: ADAMS, _Some Phases of Sexual Immorality_, 33.
Mr. Adams, however, while pointing out the "singular and to me
unaccountable, fact" that traces of bundling, found so widely
in the New England colonies, have not yet been discovered
in England, thinks that it "could hardly have found its way
as a custom" from Holland or the other countries named; and
he mentions, by way of supporting his conclusion, its great
prevalence in Cape Cod where, according to Palfrey, until about
1825, "there was a purer strain of English blood to be found ...
than could be found in any county of England." But wherever the
Dutch settled the custom of bundling was tenacious, lasting in
Pennsylvania at least until 1845: EARLE, _Customs and Fashions_,
63: and in New York at least until 1804: STILES, _op. cit._, 111.]
[Footnote 561: STILES, _op. cit._, 14-35, who cites various
authorities for Wales, especially PRATT, _Gleaning through Wales,
Holland, and Westphalia_ (3d ed., London, 1797), I, 105-7; and
BINGLEY, _North Wales_ (London, 1804), II, 282. _Cf._ also ADAMS,
_op. cit._, 32; and BRAND, _Popular Antiquities_, II, 98.]
[Footnote 562: Bundling probably has its origin in the
"proof-nights" which formerly were widely prevalent among the
Teutonic peoples of Europe: see FISCHER, _Ueber die Probenächte_,
12 ff., 24 ff., 32-36.]
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