A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
The evil consequences of this anomalous state of the law were
rendered all the more serious through the custom of "bundling" which
obtained a wide prevalence in New England as it did also in New York
and the other middle colonies. According to Stiles, who has produced
the only general history of the subject, bundling "was practiced
in two forms; first, between _strangers_, as a simple domestic
makeshift arrangement, often arising from the necessities of a new
country, and by no means peculiar to America; and, secondly between
_lovers_, who shared the same couch, with the mutual understanding
that innocent endearments should not be exceeded."[557] It is the
second form with which we are here most concerned; and in its
origin this likewise appears to have been "a custom of convenience."
It was long regarded as a gross or licentious practice peculiar
to New England. Thus Irving taunts the people of Connecticut with
having tried to deprave the manners of the "Dutch lasses of the
Nederlandts" through the introduction of that "horrible" usage.[558]
But the Dutch maidens needed no lessons from their Yankee sisters
in this regard; for in their "queesting" they had brought with them
a form of bundling from Holland.[559] Indeed, it is not at all
improbable that in this case Pilgrim and Puritan alike may have been
strongly influenced by Dutch precedent, as they certainly were in
more important institutions. Such an inference seems all the more
justifiable, for as yet no trace of bundling has been reported "in
any localities of England itself, the mother country;"[560] though
in Ireland, Scotland, and Wales evidences of its recent existence
are not wanting,[561] and the custom seems clearly to be deeply
planted in the ancient usage of the German race.[562]
[Footnote 557: STILES, _Bundling in its Origin, Progress, and
Decline_ (Albany, 1871), 13, 14. GROSE, _Dictionary of the Vulgar
Tongue_, thus explains the practice: "A man and a woman lying on
the same bed with their clothes on; an expedient practiced in
America on a scarcity of beds, when, on such occasions, husbands
and parents frequently permitted travelers to _bundle_ with their
wives and daughters." This applies, of course, only to the first
named and less interesting form of the custom. In almost the same
words as those used by Stiles, MASSON, _Journeys in Belochistan,
Afghanistan_, etc., III, 287, describes the bundling of lovers
among the Afghans: see ADAMS, _Some Phases of Sexual Immorality_,
31, note. In general on this custom consult EARLE, _Customs and
Fashions_, 62-64; WEEDEN, _Ecc. and Soc. Hist. of N. E._, II,
739, 864.]
[Footnote 558: IRVING, _Knickerbocker's Hist. of New York_
(Philadelphia, 1871), Book III, chaps. vii, viii, 217-28; _cf._
STILES, _Bundling_, 45 ff.; ADAMS, _Some Phases of Sexual
Immorality_, 31.]
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