A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 2 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
Finally it is not without interest to note that the higher legal
significance of the "contraction," as compared with that of the
English _sponsalia_, is due mainly to the influence of the Jewish
law. The code of Moses mentions no fixed ceremonies for concluding
marriage.[597] But precisely the same relation as by the Puritans
is fixed between marriage and betrothal. For criminal assault upon
the betrothed "damsel that is a virgin" and for adultery the death
penalty is prescribed.[598] Later, however, the rabbinical law
establishes "certain legal formalities for the act of concluding
marriage. The act consisted of two distinct parts, intervened by the
lapse of a certain time, the betrothment and the nuptials."[599]
To constitute a legal betrothment the mere consent of the parties
did not suffice. The performance of a solemn act was required. This
consisted in the man's giving to his chosen bride in the presence
of two witnesses either a written instrument, _sh'tar_, or a piece
of money, _kaseph_, and saying: "Be thou consecrated (wedded)
to me."[600] The contract thus made is not a "mere promise to
marry," with civil consequences for non-fulfilment. "It is the very
initiation of marriage. The betrothed parties are in some respects
regarded as married, though not yet entitled to the marital rights
nor bound to fulfil any of the mutual duties of conjugal life....
The betrothment could be dissolved only through death or a formal
bill of divorce."[601]
[Footnote 597: MIELZINER, _The Jewish Law of Marriage and
Divorce_, 75.]
[Footnote 598: Deut. 20:7; 22:22-29.]
[Footnote 599: MIELZINER, _op. cit._, 75.]
[Footnote 600: _Ibid._, 78. "As the formality of contracting
marriage by money had in the Rabbinical Law merely a symbolical
character, a coin of the least value (the _peruta_, the smallest
used in Palestine), and even any other object representing such a
value, could be used."--_Ibid._, 79. The practice may have been
derived from the Roman _coemptio_. "The rabbinical formality
differs, however, from the Roman in this, that the act is done
by the man only; _he_ gives the money or its value, and _he_
speaks the formula, while her consent is expressed by her silent
acceptance of both. This passivity on her side is in consequence
of the Talmudic principle based on the expression used in the
Mosaic law: 'If A Man Taketh A Wife;' he takes and she _is_
taken; he is the active and she the passive party."--_Talm.
Kiddushin_, 2_b_ and 3_b_; MIELZINER, _op. cit._, 78 n. 2. During
the Middle Ages it became customary to use a plain ring instead
of the piece of money: _ibid._, 79, 80.]
[Footnote 601: MIELZINER, _The Jewish Law of Marriage and
Divorce_, 76.]
Among the Jews it was quite customary for the betrothal to be
preceded by an "engagement," but it was not legally required.[602]
The Puritan went farther in this regard, regulating proposal and
courtship, as well as the pre-contract and nuptials, by statute.
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