A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
History
A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
[790] CARPENTER, _Love's Coming of Age_; quoted from MUIRHEAD,
_op. cit._, 37. The views of various socialists regarding woman
and marriage are criticised by HERTZBERG, _Der Beruf der Frau_,
43-57.
Under socialism, declare Morris and Bax, marriage and the family
will be affected "firstly in economics and secondly in ethics. The
present marriage system is based on the general supposition of
economic dependence of the woman on the man, and the consequent
necessity of his making provision for her." In the new social order
this degrading condition must disappear. "Property in children
would cease to exist, and every infant that came into the world
would be born into full citizenship, and would enjoy all its
advantages, whatever the conduct of its parents might be. Thus a
new development of the family would take place, on the basis, not
of a predominant life-long business arrangement, to be formally and
nominally held to, irrespective of circumstances, but on mutual
inclination and affection, an association terminable at the will of
either party." Thus a higher morality would be sanctioned. There
would be no "vestige of reprobation for dissolving one tie and
forming another."[791]
[791] MORRIS AND BAX, _Socialism: Its Growth and Outcome_, 299,
300.
A similar demand for liberty is made by Laurence Gronlund.
Economically "the coming commonwealth" will place woman "on an equal
footing with man." But she will be "equal," not "alike;" for in the
new society the sexes will no longer be free industrial competitors,
but each will have its special vocation. Physiological differences
will not be ignored. "Woman will become a functionary, she will
have suitable employment given her, and be rewarded according to
results, just the same as men." Like men she will have suffrage,
not as a right or a privilege, but as a trust. "The new order
will necessarily, by the mere working of its economic principles,
considerably modify" the marriage relation; and "is that relation
such an ideal one now, that it would be a sacrilege to touch it?
Is marriage not now, at bottom, an establishment for the support
of woman? Is not maintenance the price which the husband pays for
the appendage to himself? And because the supply generally exceeds
the demand--that is, the effective demand--has woman not often
to accept the offer of the first man who seems able to perform
this pecuniary obligation?" If it be objected that this is taking
"rather a commercial view" of the "holy" relation, is not, "as
a matter of fact, marriage regarded by altogether too many as a
commercial institution? Do not, in fact, the total of young women
form a matrimonial market, regulated by demand and supply?" "Now the
Co-operative Commonwealth will dissipate this horror," enabling
every healthy adult man and woman to find a mate. Thus, contrary
to false charges, socialists are not trying to destroy the family:
"they want to enable every man and woman to form a happy family!"
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