A History of the Gipsies: with Specimens of the Gipsy LanguageSimson, Walter
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A History of the Gipsies: with Specimens of the Gipsy Language
Simson, Walter
Romanies; Romanies -- Languages
When speaking of the marriages of the Mandingoes, at Kamalia, about
500 miles in the interior of Africa, Park says: "The new-married
couple are always disturbed toward morning by the women, who assemble
to inspect the nuptial sheet, (according to the manners of the ancient
Hebrews, as recorded in Scripture,) and dance around it. This ceremony
is thought indispensably necessary, nor is the marriage considered
valid without it." _Park's Travels, page 399._
By the laws of Menu, the Hindoo could reject his bride, if he found
her not a virgin.--_Sir William Jones._
[The reader will observe that the marriage ceremony of the Gipsies,
though barbarous, is very figurative and emphatic, and certainly moral
enough. To show that the Gipsies, as a people, have not been addicted
to the most barbarous customs, in regard to marriage, I note the
following very singular form of the Scottish Highlanders, which,
according to Skene, continued in use _until a very late period_. "This
custom was termed _hand-fasting_, and consisted in a species of
contract between two chiefs, by which it was agreed that the heir of
one should live with the daughter of the other, as her husband, for
twelve months and a day. If, in that time, the lady became a mother,
or proved to be with child, the marriage became good in law, even
although no priest had performed the marriage in due form; but should
there not have occurred any appearance of issue, the contract was
considered at an end, and each party was at liberty to marry, or
_hand-fast, with any other_." Which fact shows that Highland chiefs,
at one time, would have annulled any, or all, of the laws of God,
whenever it would have served their purposes.--ED.]
The nuptial mixture is carefully bottled up, and the bottle marked with
the Roman character, M. In this state, it is buried in the earth, or
kept in their houses or tents, and is carefully preserved, as evidence
of the marriage of the parties. When it is buried in the fields, the
husband and wife to whom it belongs frequently repair to the spot, and
look at it, for the purpose of keeping them in remembrance of their
nuptial vows. Small quantities of the compound are also given to
individuals of the tribe, to be used for certain rare purposes, such,
perhaps, as pieces of the bride's cake are used for dreaming-bread,
among the natives of Scotland, at the present day.
What is meant by employing earth, water, spirits, and, of course, air,
in this ceremony, cannot be conjectured; unless these ingredients may
have some reference to the four elements of nature--fire, air, earth,
and water. That of using a ram's horn, in performing the nuptial rites,
has also its meaning, could information be obtained concerning that part
of the ceremony.
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