“I do hourly thank my stars,” she says, “that I am not married to a
country squire or a beau; for in the country, all my pleasure is in my
own fireside, and that only when it is not littered with queer creatures.
One must receive visits and return them ... and if you are not more
happy in it in Nottinghamshire than I am in Yorkshire, I pity you most
feelingly.... Could you but see all the good folks that visit my poor
tabernacle, oh, your Grace would pity and admire!”
There was neither “squire” nor “beau” in the quiet, refined gentleman
she had married. The wife might well be sorry for the absence of such a
companion. He had left her, as she expressed it, to her mortification,
but with her approbation. She desired him to go, yet half-wished him to
stay; but at last “got out honour’s boots, and helped him to draw them
on.” “Since I married,” she writes to Mrs. Freind, “I have never heard
him say an ill word to any one; nor have I received one matrimonial
frown.” For a matrimonial life begun in August, clouds and showers in
October would have been an early prodigy indeed. To the duchess, who
asked more as to her characteristic doings than her feelings, Mrs.
Montagu replied:
_December 1742_—“Your Grace asks me if I have left off footing and
tumbling down-stairs. As to the first, my fidgetations are much spoiled;
sometimes I have cut a thoughtless caper, which has gone to the heart of
an old steward of Mr. Montagu’s, who is as honest as Trusty in the play
of ‘Grief à la Mode.’ I am told that he has never heard a hop that he has
not echoed with a groan.”
At another of Mr. Montagu’s houses, Sandleford, near Newbury, Berks,
his wife found more genial neighbours than in the north. She especially
disliked the rough Yorkshire folk, and she did not conceal the little
sympathy she had with “agreeable company.” She felt it a misfortune that
she found in few people the qualities that pleased her. Like him who
thanked God that he had not a heart that had room for many, she was
thankful that she could love only the chosen few; but she could bear with
twenty disagreeable people at once, while a tête-à-tête with a single one
she disliked made her sick. At Sandleford, she played the farmer’s wife’s
part without laying aside that of the lady, or, indeed, of the student.
She could rattle off the gayest description of a country fair, losing no
one of its characteristic features, and next write a long and thoughtful
dissertation over Gastrell, Bishop of Chester’s “Moral Proof of the
Certainty of a Future State.” The spirit of this dissertation, contained
in a long letter to her friend the duchess, is that of what would now be
called a Free Inquirer. She will not bow her intellect to any authority
of mortal man. She has hope, but lacks knowledge,—except that God is the
loving father of all,—and beyond that she evidently thinks the bishop
knows no more than she does.
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